There goes the neighborhood!Originally Posted by mrsydney
There goes the neighborhood!Originally Posted by mrsydney
Mr. Syd,
As long as you are being straightforward with your "sluts" it all sounds rather mild to me and totally consensual.
Good on you mate.
Don't forget the bare-backing - a mrsydney speciality :evil:Originally Posted by Thaiquila
Honestly, I didn't realize.Originally Posted by homintern
Please don't do that, Mr. Syd!
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I also believe in paying the same all during the year..What happens during low season is many boys are more willing to accept far less than they would during high season..There are expats farangs living here who have never paid an "off", never bought a boy a drink and give the boy only a few hundred baht.. As they can only really get away with this behavior with the very young, the desparate, the starving or the very unexperienced, they take advantage and I believe derive greater pleasure from underpaying than they do from the tryst.. When one of these cheapskates tells me how little he pays and brags about his exploiting of these boys, I have no use for these predators and treat them like manure... I feel the same way about the farangs who brag about the underage boys they molest and have a zero tolerance policy for them as well......People are going to do what they are going to do and I know nothing I do or say will change that, but please guys don't think other farngs want to hear how you exploit and abuse...
I agree--But nothing anyone can say will change them.Originally Posted by catawampuscat
Personally, I think of 500\1,000 as the (so-so\hahr-sibp-harh sibp) benchmark: for so-so, perfunctory, hit-and-run, performance. Better...or worse...should be tipped accordingly: why encourage the slackers?... and...Why not encourage the good, better and best?
I've found an up-front discussion can head off a lot of wasted time & disappointment. Proof: I'm damned...or blessed...however you would call it...by my own system, meaning: tips average 1,300 to 1,500 baht, (I credit the Thai 'Grapevine' at work.) but very seldom wind up with a...did someone say, "Starfish?"...dud.
Many farang refuse to learn more than a few words of Thai, expect all num to be....Drop them in bed and they GO...machines; then penalize them for their own short coming when things don't work out well--And isn't that a lose-lose situation?
You should not be too generous with these guys, neither should you be a skint flint, 1000 bht is about average - you guys know what these guys are like if you offer them 700-800 or even less - need I say more - however, if you offer them 1100-1200 they don't even flick an eye, that is the way I like it. However, if you go Tawan then they wont accept anything less than 1500 and want more, unless anyone knows any different!
I thought boys get more in BKK than in Pattaya...true?Originally Posted by John Botting
does your range 500 - 1000 apply in Pattya or BKK?
Yes, I think the 500/1000 minimum to low rate mentioned here is for Pattaya.
For Bangkok, add 400-500?
I also agree that the rates should be consistent through the year, though the working boys should certainly be making more cummulatively in high season.