well, paul, i am sure some ladyboys get their trade from drunken farangs, but dodger and others here have entered those waters with eyes wide open and I am sure sober for a good part of the day, and friends of mine have done the same, and while it doesn't really matter neither does most of what is discussed on this board, so that is why i posed another question.
ENOUGH OF THIS NONSENSE!
Lets have some fun! :cheers:
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Kenc...
I just finished laughing my ass off.. A first for 6:00 AM on a Sunday morning...Thanks!
Regarding the "Are ladyboy lovers gay or straight" issue: I don't have the answer, but a friend said:
"You're not attracted to men who look like men, so you're not really gay, are you?"
To which my answer was, "Well, I can see your point, and it makes sense. But I do love her cock. In my hand, in my mouth, in my ass, I can't get enough of that glorious dick. I will suck her cock, swallow the jizz and lick the sweat off her balls. And I may be going out on a limb here, but I think that's at least a tiny bit gay.
If you are "going out on a limb," then yes, that is more than just a tiny bit gay!
christianpfc (May 10th, 2018)
From a really good friend (who used to be, seemingly, straight) I know that being attracted to Asian ladyboys and acting on it is the first small step on a long jouney towards acceptance of your attraction to men/boys. A much too late but very needed acceptance of his bisexuality and his attraction to beautiful Asian boys.
It's might be that Asian ladyboys have fake tits and girly outfits and long eyelashes, but the part of the body that makes the difference and gives the men from Europe and US a hard-on in their pants is the lower part of the body - the dick and the tight sexy little ass.
All those silly arguments about their beauty and special features (yes, they can be beautiful, but they all have clear BOYISH features, not girly features, even the most feminine of them - true gay men can see that!). Or this talk about their 'super perfect tits'. Well, many of the other Asian girls have perfect tits too. Why chose a ladyboy?
My friend got caught by his wife who found out he was watching Thai ladyboy porn all the time, and she realised what he might have been doing on his trips to SE Asia. When she confronted him, he came up with these silly explanations (perfect tits and good looks). He even claimed that when he watched Thai ladyboy porn, he never looked at the lower part of the ladyboy's bodies. She didn't buy it, obviously. My friend got divorced after a while, and that was a turning point in his life. He realised that it was actually the dick and the boy-like butts of those Thai ladyboys that turned him on. He began watching real gay porn with Asian boys and next time he was in Thailand he had sex with both boys and ladyboys. He's very much into analsex, and while he and I had a really honest talk about this recently, he admitted to me that he really never liked vaginal sex with girls, he had always had an almost exclusive preference for anal sex since he was young (as top only). He actually had never focussed on that part of the female body when having sex with girls or watching porn.
And the point of the story? My view is that ladyboys are gay boys. A very feminine and often very submissive variant, but nevertheless 100% boys since they have a dick. It's the vagina that makes girls girls and the dick that makes boys boys. It is - admittedly - a rather conservative viewpoint in these times of identity policy where it's all about your perception of yourself and others and not about physical bodily realities, but still I would claim that if these farangs really had an exclusive preference for girls as many of them claim, in the beginning at least, they would also prefer a person with a vagina. All the rest (dressing, attitudes etc.) is more about the role and position in bed rather than gender. Even the most feminine and slutty bottom boy wearing some typical femboy clothing is still a boy, right? It's all about the dick..even if you don't focus on the dick and spend the time on his ass instead. It's still there....
dinagam (May 20th, 2018)
r33lme, this post is from over 10 years ago. Out of curiosity why did you choose this as your first post on Sawatdee?Originally Posted by r33lme
I completely dissagree with the notion of ladyboys being a stepping stone to embracing ones inner gay person.
It completely polarises sexuality. In my opinion we are all somewhat attracted to the weird and macabre. Not to mention most of us are just perverted :-)
Well said - in another thread a member commented that he wished a certain person hadn't died so he could have fucked him.
That comment was roundly condemned - yet I suspect a few of the "outraged" are so far out on the fringes that the person still being alive wouldn't necessarily be a red line.
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