Do you pay for sex in your home country?

that is a boy? I thought you were a lesbian LOL

Oh Wesley Dear, you're soooo cute.
I love you too honey.... :wan:

... "Are you mad? Of course" option

[elephantspike]

I have actually been paid for sex in the USA (this was around 15 years ago in Boston) . I never solicited it, but often, in the Nineties, older guys would offer, sometimes incessantly and aggressively, and on a few occasions I accepted.

It was a combination of financial need (desire, really) and the fact that it made me feel really hot that they wanted me that much that made me accept.

As far as paying for it myself now, the whores in the town I live in now are grotesquely ugly crack-head inbreds from upstate Maine that I would not touch with someone else's cock, let alone my own, even if they paid me (and believe me, they can't afford it anyway).

BTW- I voted the last option- "never have and never will" someday I might in a place like New York or San Francisco, if I am ever that old and rich, though.

A couple of summers ago I did the lap-dance thing with a go go boy at a bar in Montreal. It did make me come. Does that count? Canada is not my country, technically, so maybe not.

[ned kelly-old]

Interesting survey, but I doubt your'll get the truth.
I know many Aussies and Brits that would never even admit that they would consider paying for sex, let alone actually doing it in their own countries. I suspect it is the same for many Americans.
It's not the money but a culture thing.
The exact opposite for many Latino's and Asians though.

Me no shy, admit anything. Yes is the answer. I've had Scots, English, Welsh, Italian, Brazillian, Yanks and an Aussie - and paid for the lot. Aussie was top fucker. Man he was so good.

I won't be young and beautiful forever - when the time comes, I don't doubt I'd rather pay for it then go without

[Dodger]

I wish there was another option on the poll: NEVER HAVE - BUT WISH LIKE HELL I COULD.

If there was a venue here in the U.S. where you could off a boy with the appeal our little honeys in Thailand I wouldn't be flying half-way around the world to find it.

Granted, I don't have a lot of experience with the gay scene on my home turf, although have visited gay bars in various cities during my work travels and have been bitterly disappointed. Of course, being into the younger feminine type guys does reduce my chances a bit. The last gay place I ventured into was in Los Angeles. By the bars name and the description of the venue posted on the internet, it sounded OK. I found myself surrounded by about 20 of the most gruesome looking idiots I've ever laid my eyes on. Most were wearing leather Halloween looking costumes with silver dog leashes wrapped around there fat necks. The first guy who offered to buy my drink looked insane. He had a bald head with a tattoo of some kind of bug on the side of his face. His Groucho Marx mustache and gold capped teeth were equally appealing. What I would have given at that moment to see a young slender Thai boy in his sleek white bikini undies walking across the room. My wallet would have been falling out of my pocket.

mai pen rai

[allieb]

Where I live in Saudi there is free sex everywhere for everyone. There is no prostitution as such just plenty of sex. The boys I like however are usually unemployed rough types. I don't like the Saudi perfumed ponces in their BMW's who chase anything in the age bracket from birth to death.

Going back to subject money is never asked for but if I see I have a lad who could use a little help I ALWAYS hand him some money and say this for petrol ( although its only 7 pence a liter) If he doesn't have a car I say take this to top up your mobile and call me in a couple of days.

50 SR note is good = $20. any larger amount and they would be offended as it would seem like prostitution. I have given much larger amounts to special boys in need on public holidays etc. Under a holiday gift.

Some boys have asked to borrow money. If an Arab asks then he really needs. If he is a regular I give him what he asks and say its a gift you don't have to pay me back.

All a bit complicated but once you know the rules You can get fucked from assholes to breakfast time and it doesn't cost a lot of money. Arab boys seem to like older westerners I think is because they dont get a lot of family love.

[Aunty]

I offed a guy a time or two during my time in Thailand. True, I don't get to play with many moneyboys anymore, but it use to be my goal to off at least 2 guys during my holiday in Thailand.

Here in Delaware there are some very sexy guys online operating as moneyboys but there at many more who are just as sexy if not sexier who are giving it away for free. I can appreciate a man who enjoys his work but I would much rather spend my time with a guy that looks at me and desires me. A moneyboy would look at me and see me as a way to make some money...

And a Thai moneyboy is any different???

[Aunty]

Here in New Zealand prostitution is legal and that includes homosexual prostitution. In years' past (when it wasn't legal) it was common for the larger cities like Auckland, Wellington, Hamilton, Christchurch to have escort agencies which offered a variety of boys. Some boys, mainly in Auckland, also hustled on Beresford St in the city just down from K Rd, but these were typically Polynesian and Maori boys, street kids, glue sniffers and other assorted 'rough-trade'. You would also find guys selling their male to male 'massage services' in a national newspaper called the Truth. And I was just chatting tonight with a mate of mine who used to work as a tart during his Uni days to pay fas he put it, or his rent and drugs, and he used to sell it from a well known gay bar downtown.

Ironically, now that homosexuality has become legal in New Zealand, and we also have full legal protections in law, and, since prostitution has become legal, there are less male prostitutes! Go figure! Gay escort agencies can barely keep their heads above water, the boys are gone from Beresford St, and the number of boy tarts offering their services in the Truth are at an all time low. I'm not sure why this has happened? Generally speaking young gay men in New Zealand will not touch with a 10ft barge pole anyone over 35, and if you are under 35 and fat, forget it. They wouldn't touch you with a 50ft barge pole! And yet there are still plenty of older gay men around who would presumably provide a ready supply of John's for the moneyboys to service.

One thing I have found very interesting among young queer men in New Zealand is that almost without exception they think that gay prostitution is degrading and unacceptable and something that they simply won't do. This conservatism is deeply shocking to me and I would never have thought that one consequence of homosexual law reform and the normalisation of gays within New Zealand society would be to also normalise their sexual morals and attitudes, but this is what it appears to have happened. The gay ethic has shifted.

I have paid for sex from time to time in NZ. It's easy and I don't have to cook them breakfast. It allows me to be selfish. But typically the men I have paid for sex in NZ are not New Zealanders, but foreigners; Asians, Europeans etc., and most I have found from the Internet. I think the reason it is so much harder to find organised gay prostitution in NZ now is because there is no money in it for the agency/brothel owner. Those who wish to work as moneyboys do so as free lancers and with little effort or cost, they just go on line to turn tricks, they don't need agencies or to hang out on cold dark street corners for that matter. And also we have full employment at the moment. Who need to turn tricks when you have a job!

We don't have anything like gay gogo bars in NZ, or host bars or anything of that nature here, even though they would be perfectly legal if they were here. I don't think we would have enough moneyboys to keep such places going. So in spite of legalising prostitution, it has not resulted in a boom of gay prostitution. On the contrary these seems to be even less of it around!