Quote Originally Posted by piston10
"UK RB's seem very very rough" strikes me as very very wrong! You could hardly say this unless you picked them up at a downmarket place like the Quebec pub at Marble Arch. Most of the hundreds of escorts who advertise on Gaydar or on the online sites seem to be very presentable, live in decent accommodation surrounded by all the amenities and gadgets a modern young man feels he has a right to. Many are very sweet and try to do their best, are usually polite and sympathetic, ready to have a laugh, etc. Of course, you can get scammed or find a bad apple, but that goes with the territory anywhere in the world....
However, there are some complaints about them that I would go along with -chiefly, that UK RB's are very expensive! You need quite an income or some very solid savings if you want to let seeing UK escorts become a habit.
Agree with all of that. Z909's sweeping statement totally misrepresents the RB scene in the UK. Must admit I have very occasionally paid for sex in London (it's far too expensive to make that a regular habit!!). Never been disappointed yet but have heard tales from friends of some disastrous meetings!
You have to be sensible and selective in where you trawl. If you pick up guys off the street or in back street dives you are more than likely to get scammed by a ne'er-do-well, conman or drug addict. The gay saunas (where you can eye up 'in the flesh' what you are getting) or reputable escort agencies advertising on the net are the place to look.