Ladyboys, what are they good for?

[bucknaway]

Thailand seems to crank out a lot of ladyboys and I am wondering who is behind the demand for ladyboys? I am gay and I like all things masculine and when a guy puts on a dress it turns me off. I imagine that most gay men like men that look like men but still the ladyboy numbers grow.

Are the heterosexual men on holiday being given a copy? Are the Thai men keeping the real women for themselves giving the non-Thai the ladyboys and giggling "Same, same!"?

Many times I have been approached by ladyboys and I rebuff them, telling them that I am gay. Many have told me that they are gay also. but if they are now women and like men they are not gay they are now straight... Right???? But if they still have a ding-a-ling then they are on the fence I guess.

I don't think any real gay man would be interested in a ladyboy so it only stands to reason that it is the straight and bi men who are supporting the habits of the Thai ladyboys??

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"Ladyboys, what are they good for?"

Live and let live I say and each to his own. My preferences for masculine muscular men are quite well known but when I post there are always a few who have to annnounce, for some inexplicable reason, that they don't. I find that quite rude. Now 'why do I like muscles and what are they good for' I don't know any more than I know why I am gay. I relax with the EST philosophy on sex " When you're hot you're hot - when you're not you're not."

I have a couple of friends who are very keen on ladyboys and go into raptures about their beauty. They find it hard to understand why I am not sexually attracted to them though I can often see that they are indeed very beautiful the same as I can see if a woman is very beautiful. I ask them that if the lady boys convertion to a woman is complete and they are indistinguishable from a real woman, are they still attracted and the answer is yes but there is always something about them. He subsequently admitted that he decided to take a girl home one night and found out in his room that it was a ladyboy.

I know of several people who are mad to find a ladyboy boy/girlfriend with a big willy to top them. That must be difficult to find. I know two go-go bar boys who are buffed and handsome and their preference is for lady-boys.

Why you feel that your choice is right and better or superior to that of others, and your disparagement of lady-boys, leaves me gasping at the monumental size of your ego and lack of empathy for your fellow human beings. I think that your interest in others is shown by the contents of your personal gallery http://www.sawatdee-gay-thailand.com/fo ... ser_id=259 Shame on you - even if you were just writing to be arguementative.



Mind you I cannot abide bald people - what are they good for!! Love you really kiss kiss!

[bucknaway]

Wowpow........... Take that chip off your cyber shoulder. I simply posted this topic to find out who the ladyboys are becoming ladyboys for?

No one is putting down ladyboys or the men or women who love them. We will do a post on muscleboys later.

So now... Give me a hug.... :geek:

Sorry chuck but you can't wriggle out of what you wrote by pretending it was an academic genuine enquiry. There are too many pejorative statements. I feel certain that you are a Katoeyphobe and need help. I think I may have to lock you in Ti-fanny show for a week.

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"Heelo Buck you wanna fu@k?"

I'm sure there many reasons why people are or become katoey. I have a female European Buddhist colleague who tells me the story of her son/daughter. Apparently the ovaries/testicles were indeterminently positioned and the appellation "boy" was arbitrarily chosen by a doctor. She now lives as a girl but has had to seek the support of the Student's Union to retain her room in a girl's house/dorm at her Uni.

One newspaper I saw recently seemed to be suggesting that some Thai adopt lipstick in order to avoid the draft.

I found the film "Beautiful Boxer" a bit of a tear jerker but I must say, I tend to avoid the company of katoey as those that I have met tend towards bi-polar behaviour and I like to surround myself with calm. Which is why I come to this board. 555.

Humph! I agree Wowpow. I think Bucky wants to know what good lady boys are for in the sack with your average gay punter from the West? He sees them as a commodity but cannot make sense of his own prejudices. Probably not much in the bed Bucky, but rest assured there are plenty of straight Japanese and Indian businessmen amongst others begging for more.

[bucknaway]

No worry. I am just making conversation on the board.... If you think I have a phobia or am anti laadyboy and want to talk about it, that is fine with me. I don't mind sharing my thoughts and feelings.

Lets start with this. In Thailand, ladyboys are a thing of wonder to me. I look at them but I don't get to close. When I look at them I am looking to see if I can see the boy underneath who is now hidden by the woman on the outside. Why is it that I don't want to be close to a ladyboy? Here in Delaware, there were and are a lot of drag queens and I learned at a very young age that they were not the sort to mingle with and I found it best if they did not even know my name.

In Thailand I don't feel the need to befriend a strange ladyboy. Why you asK? Because I am gay and I like men that look like men. I like lean men, regular men, young men (24 and up and I like some older men (60 and younger). I don't like women. Well I like women but I don't let them take up any of my quality time. Only may spare-spare-spare time.

If you take the ladyboy out the dress and if he is not swishy than it is possible he and I can share some time together, but it would be a shame for him to transform himself simply to hang around me... He should be free to be himself and I should be free to like guys that look like a guy.

[bucknaway]

I know that there are many biological reasons why many guys become women. Do you think all the ladyboys in Thailand are ladyboy by natures pull or by their own human reasons?

I'm sure there many reasons why people are or become katoey. I have a female European Buddhist colleague who tells me the story of her son/daughter. Apparently the ovaries/testicles were indeterminently positioned and the appellation "boy" was arbitrarily chosen by a doctor. She now lives as a girl but has had to seek the support of the Student's Union to retain her room in a girl's house/dorm at her Uni.

One newspaper I saw recently seemed to be suggesting that some Thai adopt lipstick in order to avoid the draft.

I found the film "Beautiful Boxer" a bit of a tear jerker but I must say, I tend to avoid the company of katoey as those that I have met tend towards bi-polar behaviour and I like to surround myself with calm. Which is why I come to this board. 555.

[bucknaway]

When I go to Phuket, I may just take a ladyboy for a test drive just for the hell of it. (viagra)...

Humph! I agree Wowpow. I think Bucky wants to know what good lady boys are for in the sack with your average gay punter from the West? He sees them as a commodity but cannot make sense of his own prejudices. Probably not much in the bed Bucky, but rest assured there are plenty of straight Japanese and Indian businessmen amongst others begging for more.

Strange Buckeye, I always thought you were a ladyman under that desperate macho exterior, seems I was right. The first step is the hardest, but it should be plain-sailing, for you at least, the rest of the way.
Go into a department store (dont need to be choosy not on your budget) follow your nose until you reach the cosmetics dept, there reach for the lipsticks and start gently fondling a lip stick shaft. Rub it up until the red head pushes up against your lower lip, then pause and test a bit on the back of your hand for colour compatibility, after you are satisfied, slowly make your way to the assistant and ask her what she thinks, because you are bound to make a few mistakes in the beginning and you dont want to look like more of a pillock than you already are on your first attempt. She will gush and sweep you up into her heavily scented and powdered bosom taking you back to your semi secure childhood, before you know it you are there, with a bright shiny new pair of smackers and some rouge to match.
ps-dont fight it let go of your feelings