thank the heavens for that....I already have a partner to whom Im very well suited.to....last thing I need is a needy emotional 20 something falling in love with me....they need to know that its a 100% physical arrangement...and btw it can't be such a bad experience as almost all are still on speaking terms with me...some have even thanked me for helping set themselves up in a new country...most recent example was a Brazilian ....helped him with visa issues, got him a job and finally he found his now husband through one of my friends....must say that apart from great sex I've also become friends with some of the local south americans which has proved to be invaluable in finding new candidates...guess like they say "one hand washes the other"...