China is very difficult...i spent many weekends in Shanghai up until about 8 years ago...most of my sex with with other foreigners...I stayed at the Hilton in the french concession...its now run under a different brand...lots of flight crew stayed there....they had a fantastic gymn sauna area...had sooo much sex...but again it was all foreign crew...the gay bars and clubs seemed to move every few months..sex in regional cities like Suzhou, Wuxi, Nanjing was even more difficult...the Chinese are not as polished as the Taiwaneses, Thais...its all very difficult and akward