Marriage, like many things means different things to different people..First of all, it means nothing at all to the straight boys except money..The
gay boys may want a gold ring (my first b/f and I got matching ones), a party perhaps blessed by a monk, legal entanglements involving your money, condo, house, or just a verbal committment..

I bought the gold rings and thought a party would be nice but the b/f (gay for sure) only wanted the ring.. Years later, he still has the ring and I was surprised it didn't get pawned or sold.. Believe me, you don't want the extended family over your house/condo for a long visit and everyone in the family needs dental, medical, educational or some other needs paid for.. You better have deep pockets and great patience if you only have one bathroom...
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