Quote Originally Posted by Marc K View Post
...preying on the disadvantaged and "clueless" should make us sad.

Let's start with this: the interaction should be willing, between consenting adults, respectful, and not cause any permanent damage or danger to either party.
I agree with you 100%. If boy doesn't enjoy our interaction and doing nothing in return (i.e. don't hug or kiss me back), then it's a biggest turn off for me.