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    Re: life post gogo bars...

    I remember one boy I got to know quite well after I met him on the Dongtan Gay beach in 2007. He had only just arrived in Pattaya and had not yet worked bar - instead he had a job overnight in a laundry. He told me he was not happy in his Isaan village because he was gay. He was a cute 19 year old twink looking for a farang to “take care”. I was very attracted particularly as he was wearing very brief speedos with a large cock outlined. It was back to my Complex hotel for sex and this developed into a 3 week “boyfriend” relationship. I was giving him good money and buying regular presents including a phone and a gold ear-ring. He surprised me by asking if he could keep his money in my room safe and this built up to a fair sum by the time I had to go home. I kept in touch with him but didn’t send any money but was able to return after 2 months. There was an affectionate reunion at the airport and things carried on as before. He said he had worked at Cupidol Gogo occasionally but had spent most time at home with his mother to whom he had given some of his money. I took him on a few trips away from Pattaya and the same request was made for me to store his money in my safe. At the end of my 4 week trip it had built up to almost 100 k baht. He started to talk about going to university and that maybe I could finance that. I said I would think about it but whilst at home a friend in Pattaya told me that he had acquired another farang boyfriend - a German. The boy telephoned me and I confronted him with my knowledge of his new boyfriend. His reply was that he was to enrol at university and that this was very expensive. I later found out that he had actually done this and was studying marketing in Bkk and was doing well. He was also happy because he had found a few young gay friends at the college. I didn’t ever meet him again and often wonder what became of him - maybe by now he is a top executive in a,multi-national. On the hand perhaps he went back to the sex industry and continued finding “boyfriends”.
    He cost me quite a bit of money, but it was well spent. We had great sex and quite a lot of fun so,I couldn’t complain.

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    Re: life post gogo bars...

    Quote Originally Posted by Daveuk View Post
    I didn’t ever meet him again and often wonder what became of him
    I understand that the previous mamasan of Cupidol opened a bar in Jomtien. It might be something you can ask considering your motive. She stays in contact or has info about many of the boys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vnman View Post
    I understand that the previous mamasan of Cupidol opened a bar in Jomtien. It might be something you can ask considering your motive. She stays in contact or has info about many of the boys.
    Well of course it’s a long time ago that I had the experiences with that “gay beach” boy. I did go to Cupidol in BT in subsequent trips but he was never there. I like to think after accumulating enough funds from “boyfriends” he left the sex trade and that I contributed to him having a good life.
    I must have had sex with maybe more than a hundred boys during my trips to Thailand and I can only recall about a dozen of them, but I won’t forget my “beach boyfriend” especially with him wearing his red speedos which always got me horny.

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    Re: life post gogo bars...

    Quote Originally Posted by vnman View Post
    I understand that the previous mamasan of Cupidol opened a bar in Jomtien. It might be something you can ask considering your motive. She stays in contact or has info about many of the boys.
    That bar is M BAR; located on the soi parallel to the main soi in the Complex.

    https://www.gaysupertown.com/

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    Quote Originally Posted by francois View Post
    That bar is M BAR; located on the soi parallel to the main soi in the Complex.

    https://www.gaysupertown.com/
    That is a really impressive map. Would be great if someone would walk around the complex with a camera to give a visual overview.

    If only they would allow a couple gogo bars

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    Re: life post gogo bars...

    Quote Originally Posted by vnman View Post
    If only they would allow a couple gogo bars
    vnman - that would be the icing on the cake. They would also need to add at least one place to dance - as their business model of:

    "falang sits down and drinks" gets boring real fast - it is too static and is not conducive to producing energetic fun.

    often when I go to JC, I intentionally stand at whatever bar I go to. It makes the waiters and mamasans crazy. They say, please, falang sits.
    I respond why? it is so boring. I want to stand like you are allowed to stand. They just don't get it....

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    Re: life post gogo bars...

    Quote Originally Posted by bkkmfj2648 View Post
    vnman - that would be the icing on the cake. They would also need to add at least one place to dance - as their business model of:

    "falang sits down and drinks" gets boring real fast - it is too static and is not conducive to producing energetic fun.

    often when I go to JC, I intentionally stand at whatever bar I go to. It makes the waiters and mamasans crazy. They say, please, falang sits.
    I respond why? it is so boring. I want to stand like you are allowed to stand. They just don't get it....
    I agree! The table system they have in many Asian countries is not for me either. I rather walk around with a drink in my hand.

    Also, alcohol works differently on me when I move around instead of being stationary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vnman View Post
    That is a really impressive map. Would be great if someone would walk around the complex with a camera to give a visual overview.
    Google Street View at your service!
    I can’t even be bothered to be apathetic these days!

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    Quote Originally Posted by bkkguy View Post
    Google Street View at your service!
    Not very useful, being that Street View updates once every 2 to 3 years if you are lucky.

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