...glad u say.... "Everyone has their own thing when it comes to massage boys"....as I really don't care what turns them on, I'm paying & its me that counts...all within bounds naturally...I wouldnt want to inflict pain...a bit of discomfort is fine (like insist he kneel, look up at me, always maintain eye contact & deep throats my dick until he's gagging & all teary from the effort while I pump his face all the while smirking at his efforts...so not exactly whips and chains) ....he's there not because he's turned on my me...he's there for the cash...its a job. Now a grindr or similar encounter is different....usually some degree of attraction is required & I do enjoy the odd spot of love making...though if i'm messaged by someone called "boy4use" then I guess that we both are in for a good ride.
Basically in Thailand if I walk into a massage place I expect to get a massage and a fuck and I always check that is whats on offer...very rarely have I not fucked the service provider.
Like the fact that old git makes them shoot....not all can...good work