The hotel staff see it every 5 minutes. They do not ask questions but they often want the man's id to hold while he is there. I always book a room for 2 people. In Bangkok ST 2000, LT 3000 bt would be normalish. Cheaper in Pattaya. Do not believe Mamasans on prices. Haggling on the apps is fine.
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Okay and what is the average ST and LT times ?Originally Posted by Mancs
Traditionally and, I would say, by common consent, the accepted definition of short-time with a bar-boy is, you come, he goes!Okay and what is the average ST and LT times ?
Seriously though, short-time is as long as it takes you to have your merry way with the cute lad you’ve just off’d. But if you take too long, he'll soon let you know. Lol! If you really like the lad and want him to stay longer, you can simply ask him, but be prepared for a polite refusal. He may be eager to return to his bar and look for another off. I’ve been in bars many times and watched a punter leave the bar with a cute young lad in tow, only for the young man to return to the bar in what appears to be an unusually short space of time, strip back to his undies and resume his place on the stage. Either I’ve sat in the bar way too long, or it really was a very short-time off. Lol! Alternatively, he may have many other things to do, like meeting up with friends, going to a party or going out to a club, so don’t be too disappointed, you can ask to see him again the following night. But, thinking positively, he may agree, in that case you simply pay him the LT off-fee (or the agreed fee) in the morning.
In my experience, if you see a bar-boy on a regular basis, as an alternative to a long-time off, both of you may wish to extend the definition of short-time without the lad spending the night with you. I’ve known many cases where after the night or day’s activities are concluded we will go out for a meal together, or perhaps go for a swim, lounge by the pool, then go out for a meal. It all depends on the relationship built up with your new found friend. The lad may be interested in seeing the same punter night after night rather than gamble on finding a new punter every night and, it is not unheard of, but there’s a good chance he may really like you and ask to see you again. Of course in the early days you may not wish to commit yourself to seeing the same bar-boy every night and decide to play the field, explore the bars and see what else is out there. That will be, “up to you” a common phrase you are likely to hear quite often.
As regards the definition of long-time, this is generally accepted as having the lad stay with you overnight. If you want him to stop over even longer you will need to discuss the matter with him. You may well have really enjoyed each other’s company so much that, by mutual agreement, you both agree to extend his visit. But bear in mind, as a practical matter, it is entirely likely that he will wish to go home, speak with friends or family, or do any number of things, then return later in the day with a change of clothes etc,.
All of the above is solely based on my opinion, other members may very well advise you differently. Honestly, there are so many variables and my advice, for what it is worth, is to play it by ear, have a great time, enjoy the experience and treasure the memories.
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lol Okay easy enoughTraditionally and, I would say, by common consent, the accepted definition of short-time with a bar-boy is, you come, he goes!
Guess i am used to hours instead body reactions lol.
So i suppose if i just want some company i should just say at the bar or he could wait a long time
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