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    Music Volume: When will they ever learn ?

    I made a brief visit to Boyztown on Friday.
    Just 3 bars were open: Castro, Serene and BBB.

    The noise level in the soi was rather high, so I did a quick survey and picked a seat at BBB away from the loudspeaker.
    They had a show with 3 handsome young men, smartly dressed, a lady boy and then a couple of lady men. Good of them for continuing to make an effort and having the 3 smartly dressed lads.

    I counted a maximum of 43 customers across all 3 bars. That's counting everyone at a table as a customer, so this may include some staff.
    As the music was too loud, I decided to make it 42 customers. Walking away, the volume was reasonable by the time I got to the entrance to The Penthouse and it was still audible 2 sois away. Now I can't claim the volume was ridiculous, but it was certainly unpleasant, even after I made sure I wasn't in front of the speaker. I suspect that if they cut the volume by 30%, they would lose no customers and gain quite a few.
    Or do the expats and the handful of long term tourists like loud music ?


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    Quote Originally Posted by goji View Post
    Or do the expats and the handful of long term tourists like loud music ?
    Most of the expats who write on the boards often tell us they do not frequent (sorry!) the gay areas, so there’s no point is asking them the question.

    As the night goes on the lights go down and the music goes up. TIT. These bars are staffed by younger people and they just don’t understand older people’s preferences. They think it’s a disco!

    I remember sitting in Funny Boys a few years ago at the beginning of its decline. The music got louder and louder and eventually I was the only one left. I asked the Cashier if he knew why everyone had left. He didn’t.

    At the end of the conversation he knew exactly why they had gone.

    A year later I bumped into him in his new job at Panorama and during the chat he asked me if the music volume as okay. The previous conversation had obviously worked.

    By the way I used to consider BBB was the worst offender. Now I have changed my mind and as far as I’m concerned it is now The Palace (think that’s the name) in Jomtien. It’s 2 doors up from @Home bar and sitting in that nice bar it is sometimes almost unbearable.

    The noise is so bad that other bars nearby must be losing a lot of trade because of it. If I was the owner of an adjacent bar I would be having words.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gerefan2 View Post

    Most of the expats who write on the boards often tell us they do not frequent (sorry!) the gay areas, so there’s no point is asking them the question.

    As the night goes on the lights go down and the music goes up. TIT. These bars are staffed by younger people and they just don’t understand older people’s preferences. They think it’s a disco!
    Most of the gay expats I know do in fact frequent the gay areas (when they're open). That's why most of them are here.

    As far as the music volume goes:

    Lights going down and music going up (as you stated) is to be expected in bar scenes run by younger people. If you want a quiet more subdued environment - then it would probably be best if you went to bar scenes which cater more to older people. The Pattaya Marriott has a small piano bar on its lower level - accompanied on occasion by a string quartet which comes to mind.

    You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want to party and have sex with young people you need to learn how to accept the generational differences. If you think your money can change any of this, you're sadly mistaken.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dodger View Post
    You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want to party and have sex with young people you need to learn how to accept the generational differences. If you think your money can change any of this, you're sadly mistaken.
    We've been having our cake and eating it for years, as the majority of bars catering to mature farang keep the music at a sensible level. The working boys will show up anyway, as good pros do.
    Also, it's very much a mistake to think all young people like loud music. Some have far more sense.

    In Sunee, none of the bars play loud music.
    Jomtien Complex has just one bar which is a regular offender, which can be avoided by moving a few bars away.
    Unfortunately when BBB play loud music outside, it screws up the ambience for the whole soi. But I'll just take my business elsewhere.

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    Quote Originally Posted by goji View Post
    We've been having our cake and eating it for years, as the majority of bars catering to mature farang keep the music at a sensible level.
    I'm with Boris on this one: “My policy on cake is pro having it and pro eating it."

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    Quote Originally Posted by goji View Post

    We've been having our cake and eating it for years, as the majority of bars catering to mature farang keep the music at a sensible level.

    If the music volume at the majority of bars is acceptable to you - then where's the problem?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dodger View Post
    If the music volume at the majority of bars is acceptable to you - then where's the problem?
    When one Boyztown bar plays music so loud that it f***s up civilized conversation in the whole of Boyztown, that's a problem.
    A problem, but not a major one, since I can go to Jomtien or Sunee.
    Of course, since you don't go to the bars yourself, what's your problem when those of us who expect to hold a conversation at a bar complain about loud music preventing it ?

    People go to bars to socialize. Loud music prevents social interaction. It also damages hearing, so no one gains.

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    I climb back on my hobby-horse. I shall never forgive the owners of the bars, particularly the new one (well, it was new at the time) that drove us to abandon Ambiance (in my case after twenty years and nearly seventy visits) because they insisted on playing loud music at 0300 for a dozen customers.

    And we are not the only people who departed..

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    Re: Music Volume: When will they ever learn ?

    Then stay at home and crochet a sweater.

    Geez... god forbid you allow the guys who are tasked with providing you with pleasure to be comfortable in their workplace.

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