As you already know, the sidewalks are rolled up right now in Boyztown. Ambience closed back in Sept. According to a reliable source they may reopen sometime in the 1stQ 2022, but that of course remains to be seen.
You may want to consider Mosaic in the Soi Day/Night area, or The Agate Hotel or Venue in Jomtien Complex. All are gay friendly with no joiner fees.