I think the curiosity that I expressed over Oliver's comments is not misplaced. Like yourself, Oliver takes himself, and more specifically, his sense of goodness, kindness and moral superiority very seriously. The likes of him, and you, are not above berating others for the slightest perceived transgressions against the Thai people even if they are made in tongue-in-ass-cheek (latintopxxx for example). So when he makes statements against his own moral code and years of professed love for his boyfriend, then I am entitled to - how do you say it - red triangle it.