How dire is the situation on the ground in Pattaya among Thai boys/men?

[Wolzek]

I have donated a couple times to Jomtien food giveaway.
But my friends are far away a little north of Buakow.
Thats 2 baht bus transfers to Jomtien and two back.
One helluva way back to walk just from Boystown. I've done that.

Seems foolish to go to Jomtien for food if they live near soi Buakhao when there is probably at least 10 restaurants regularly giving out free food in soi Buakhao, Pattaya klang and sidesois.
Aswell as Cupidol bar in Boyztown as you mentioned Boyztown. If they live near city hall they give out free food there too.

[dab69]

Seems foolish to go to Jomtien for food if they live near soi Buakhao when there is probably at least 10 restaurants regularly giving out free food in soi Buakhao, Pattaya klang and sidesois.
Aswell as Cupidol bar in Boyztown as you mentioned Boyztown. If they live near city hall they give out free food there too.

wish they would post a link to donate to
that can't be inexpensive for them

[a447]

unfortunately all the boys I met long my twenty years traveling to Thailand were lazy,greedy, unfaithful and liers(sic)

I'm very surprised to hear about your experiences with the guys, as 99% of the ones I've met over the years have been the exact opposite. My time with the guys, both in and out of bed, has been wonderful.

Brad has hit the nail on the head with this one. If you want to have the enjoyable experience that many (most) of us here enjoy when we hook up in Thailand, perhaps you should have a good think about what you might possibly be doing wrong.

[arsenal]

Latin wrote.
"...unfaithful ....there r money boys...thats their job ..like they r supposed to pleasure ANYONE with cash to pay...
....liers..............there r money boys...thats their job ..like they r supposed to say you NOT handsome...you NOT have big dick...."

Haha. That is funny. And I'm hitting the same percentage as a447. If your offs are continually disappointing then look to change the MO.

[arsenal]

And, I really don't think you can call them lazy. Those boys need Olympic athlete levels of fitness and stamina to go a session or two with a447.

[a447]

Those boys need Olympic athlete levels of fitness and stamina to go a session or two with a447.

Only in my dreams! (sigh)

[dab69]

If your offs are continually disappointing then look to change the MO.

Lower your expectations to "they don't run out of the room screaming"

[latintopxxx]

...u mean shrieking...

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Dire? I'll give you dire ...

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[christianpfc]

If you really want to help Thai people it's better to send money directly to local Thai charity and aid organisations it's seems to me more logical then sending money to boys I barely know and had already been paid for their service. ...So I think it's better to send money to charity and aid organisations then to sponsor random money boys who send endless requests to long lists potential falangs.

My approach is the opposite. I don't know any Thai charity, and if I searched for charities on the internet I wouldn't know if they are trustworthy. But I have a few regulars (minimum two encounters, average closer to five encounters) who didn't ask me for money, but I asked them how things are going and then offered to send money assuming they will put it to good use. I wouldn't send money to boys I rarely know or random money boys.

...unfortunately all the boys I met long my twenty years traveling to Thailand were lazy,greedy, unfaithful and liers so why should I soport them at all ?

A few years ago my situation was similar (even worse, I had a few thieves), and whenever I posted such judgements on the forums I got chastised. Now my situation has improved a lot and I would not agree with your statement any more. The reason for that change is not entirely clear to me, part is casting a wider net and having more choice, and better judgement so I can let go of boys when there are bad signs in communication instead of running after them.

In online chat, there are still plenty of stupid, lazy, greedy I chat with, but I detect this early and don't waste time on them as I did in the past.