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    Re: bareback or not...

    Quote Originally Posted by snotface View Post
    Whoever it is he's clearly much more knowledgeable about Thailand AND gay message board history than any twenty-something Singaporean student...It's fun to speculate but ultimately... who cares?
    Clearly YOU care. You’ve been chasing me around like a needy little dog for days now. Sglad this and sglad that. You’re obsessed with me and how young/old I am; you’ve mentioned my age and student status at least twice in this thread alone. Incidentally, I haven’t been a student in Thailand for almost three years now and will be 29 in February. In more than a thousand posts on this forum I think I’ve referenced my student status in Thailand less than twenty times and only when it was germane to the context of my posts. You are the one who’s titillated by it. When I signed on to this board almost four years ago, it didn't say students weren't allowed. All I had to attest to was that I was of legal age; if and when Moses introduces a requirement that I have to be over sixty, senile and living in Pattaya to join, I’d gladly withdraw my membership.

    Speaking of Pattaya, I would think you’d have better and more fun things to do like frolicking in the sun with handsome young men than obsessing over someone whom you don’t even believe is real? What does that say about you?


    Quote Originally Posted by snotface View Post
    That's right, unlike you whose whole board presence is based round the pretence that you are a twenty-something Singaporean student of Chinese origin.
    Again, the 20-something student reference. But this time said with a delightful racist sneer. Would it have soothed your superior colonial sensitivities if I were intelligent (your description) and white? But no, that’s not you. As a true colonial, you’d be a lot happier if I were brown, poor and dependent on you. a447 has said more than once that I couldn’t be Asian because of my strong English and writing skills (his description). So, you see, the problem is not me. It’s you and guys like you who can’t cope with bright, independent Asian guys who can not only stand on their own two feet but who can stand up against you in your OWN language and often times with wit and style. It just kills you, doesn’t it? My presence not only takes you away from your comfort zone but pierces the emotional, mental and physical colonial bubble that you’ve created for yourself in Thailand. Who is this upstart sglad and why isn’t he wai-ing and grinning at me, the grand Lord Snottyface – doesn't he want his hundred Baht tip?


    Quote Originally Posted by snotface View Post
    So why do you hang around on a board where so much offends you? No normal person would stay for more than a day or two in those circumstances. I assume it's because the material excites you in some way you don't wish to acknowledge.
    I can ask you the same question. Why do you keep responding to latin’s posts if they so deeply offend you? You and Oliver seem to have an intimate knowledge of what he writes. Clearly you enjoy reading them in some perverse way, secretly wishing you could indulge in the same depraved (perhaps you already do) and humiliating practices to satisfy your deepest, darkest colonial desires. I wouldn’t be at all surprised if you have a safari suit and pith helmet in your closet which you put on with sexy black lace stockings and six-inch stilettos when your Thai boy of the night comes over, begging him to whip and fuck you - “fuck me baby, I’ve been a bad master, fuck me RAW like the bad British hoe that I really am. Moisten my wrinkled white ass with your sumptuous native essence.” You might even organise this at a rubber plantation – you know, just to get the atmosphere right – and don’t forget to get your amah to prepare a tiffin for both of you to snack on after.

    And for the record, this forum doesn’t offend me at all. It’s entertaining and it’s informative, for the most part, and I’d like to think that I’ve expanded the conversation by adding my perspectives of life in Thailand that go beyond Pattaya and the commercial sex industry. I know you don’t like this because, again, it disrupts your essentialist, monolithic view of the Thai people (ie “I see this in Pattaya and among sex workers and therefore it’s true of all Thai people”) and takes you away from your bubble/comfort zone and makes you doubt your own sense of self-worth and usefulness when you’re out of that zone. As always, it’s all about you.

    Quote Originally Posted by snotface View Post
    As for the suggestions here and elsewhere that latintopxxx is acting as some kind of accomplice of Moses to drum up business - well, we're in real looney conspiracist territory here.
    Look who’s the loony now? When reason and argument fail, you resort to that old chestnut of painting your challengers as a hydra of this person or that person. All utter nonsense. When you haven’t got a leg to stand on, then perhaps it best to take a seat, instead of using the old sock puppet allegation as a prosthetic. Stick to what you’re good at – fictional writing about Thailand direct from your bar stool.

    Quote Originally Posted by snotface View Post
    Whoever it is he's clearly much more knowledgeable about Thailand AND gay message board history than any twenty-something Singaporean student...
    Surely you know from your own circumstances that wisdom doesn’t necessarily come with age. Curiosity, education, genetics, socio-economic background and a broad lived experience are some of the factors that may impact the knowledge that we acquire and how we process it. I’ve had and continue to have a fantastic, diverse association with Thailand through my education, work and social interactions for almost four years now, ten if you start counting from the time of my first visit in 2010. I speak, read and write the language confidently. Believe it or not, I can even order a cup of coffee from a street stall without any problems.

    Quote Originally Posted by dinagam View Post
    Latin has inadvertently triggered a witch-hunt and a second Spanish Inquisition...
    It sure looks like it, doesn’t it? Just goes to show what a great provocateur Latin is. And that ringing endorsement from Oliver has ensured three thousand more posts from Latintopxxx. All he has to do is unload some of his shit on this forum as he performs his 6 AM bowel movement. Lord Snottyface tries ten times as hard but doesn’t get half the amount of attention (even though he produces the same amount of shit). Perhaps that what irks him so.

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    Re: bareback or not...

    Quote Originally Posted by sglad View Post
    You’re obsessed with me...
    Hahaha. Says the guy who then proceeds to write a 10,000 word response to me. You're more wound up than a crisp baked pretzel (my thanks to a regular contributor for the wonderful image). Anyway, time for my mid-morning cup of tea, a custom of us colonials, don't you know. Tatty bye.

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    Re: bareback or not...

    Quote Originally Posted by sglad View Post

    ...Again, the 20-something student reference. But this time said with a delightful racist sneer. Would it have soothed your superior colonial sensitivities if I were intelligent (your description) and white? But no, that’s not you. As a true colonial, you’d be a lot happier if I were brown, poor and dependent on you. a447 has said more than once that I couldn’t be Asian because of my strong English and writing skills (his description). So, you see, the problem is not me. It’s you and guys like you who can’t cope with bright, independent Asian guys who can not only stand on their own two feet but who can stand up against you in your OWN language and often times with wit and style. It just kills you, doesn’t it?
    sglad,

    When communicating with people who you feel may hold prejudice against you for your age, race, cultural background, etc. I think you would find it beneficial to avoid being baited into meaningless mud-slinging contests, especially where racial slurs start getting tossed around like hand grenades. If you are as intelligent as you present yourself as being, then you will find this advice valuable, not only in this discussion, but in all your interactions with people of different cultures going forward.

    Also, and only meant as a positive suggestion, you really should start having more confidence in yourself. You've obviously intelligent and articulate which you should be proud of, although you also seem to be harboring a glaring inferiority complex. Read your own words below:

    "So, you see, the problem is not me. It’s you and guys like you who can’t cope with bright, independent Asian guys who can not only stand on their own two feet but who can stand up against you in your OWN language and often times with wit and style. It just kills you, doesn’t it? "

    A question I would have about this statement is; Why do you feel the constant need to "stand up against" people?

    I also find it interesting that you've introduced yourself as being Asian, when, in fact, your personality reflects more Western than Asian traits. It makes no difference to me what you call yourself, but I do find it very interesting. I'm not confused by this because of you'e level of intelligence at all, because my first 10 years in Asia were spent interacting with Asian executives in China, Singapore, Thailand, S. Korea and Taiwan and, believe me, they were as intelligent and articulate as they come. I'm confused about this for the mere fact that you seem to lack two of the most pronounced and fundamental characteristics of all Asians, and that's their high level of "Humility" - and preference of avoiding negative confrontations with others, both characteristics being deeply and firmly ingrained in Asian culture.

    Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dodger View Post
    sglad,

    I also find it interesting that you've introduced yourself as being Asian, when, in fact, your personality reflects more Western than Asian traits. It makes no difference to me what you call yourself, but I do find it very interesting. I'm not confused by this because of you'e level of intelligence at all, because my first 10 years in Asia were spent interacting with Asian executives in China, Singapore, Thailand, S. Korea and Taiwan and, believe me, they were as intelligent and articulate as they come. I'm confused about this for the mere fact that you seem to lack two of the most pronounced and fundamental characteristics of all Asians, and that's their high level of "Humility" - and preference of avoiding negative confrontations with others, both characteristics being deeply and firmly ingrained in Asian culture
    How much longer will posters fail to accept that sglad has nothing to do with Singapore, he is not Chinese and he is not in his 20s. You just have to read his posts to see with the utmost clarity that Dodger is perfectly correct.

    sglad appeared on this Board as a proven hydra with SugarGrandpa or something like that as his alter ego. Does he deny he was a hydra? With SG appearing prominently in both handles, did no one notice the similarity?

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    Re: bareback or not...

    Hey guys. Do you remember that the original topic of this thread was "bareback or not"?

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    Re: bareback or not...

    Quote Originally Posted by latintopxxx View Post
    ...but like all good things as I've matured I've been able to enjoy the pleasures of life without additives...
    No, now you're at the stage where you need preservatives, not additives.

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    Re: bareback or not...

    My sample size is a lot smaller than PassionTop, but from my recent (3-4 year) experiences I have experienced a lot of what he has mentioned.
    As someone that was born in the mid 70s using condoms has always been drilled into be from an early age, so raw sex is not very easily contemplatable for me, however generation Z is a lot more careless when it comes to safer sex

    Laos:
    One was a condom checker, he checked so many times to ensure that the condom was intact that it became a real pleasure killer for me.
    Another was a condom stealther, he kept trying to remove the condom from my cock without me noticing it and sit on it raw.
    Next was condoms to start, but later in the session he also tried to sit on me raw (when he wanted to cum). Needless to say I pushed him off.
    Final one was condoms to start, but later in the session when riding cowboy I noticed that he had slipped off the condom and held it in his hand. Needless to say I also pushed him off.

    It should note that it was always when they were in control (e.g. riding cowboy) that they tried to pull the condom off

    Khmer:
    One guy asked me did I have a condom, when I jokingly said "no" he shrugged his shoulders and bent over anyway (before anyone asks, we did use a condom)
    Another was playing with pushing my cock into his ass during foreplay, but later when it came to the deed requested a condom
    Last was a condom boy during round 1, round 2 started in the bathroom after showers and he was trying to get me to push it into him without a condom whilst brushing his teeth and admiring himself in the over sink mirror

    Thai:
    One guy kept slipping off the condom and saying "oops", not sure if he was looking to be have raw sex or simply wanted the sex to stop
    Another asked me to cum on his ass and push it in during our 3rd round (maybe he knew there was little to no hope of there being much volume!)
    Took another to a short time room and we had only one condom between us (mine), during a mid sex break he took off my condom and throw it in the bin, then wanted to continue without it
    Another was on Prep and inquired to know if I was also on it so we needn't bother with condoms
    2 others brought their own condoms and 1 insisted on using his and not mine
    Buffalo me die! Send Money!

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    Re: bareback or not...

    ...oh here I go again...I do use additives...I do enjoy viagra/kamagra on the odd occasion...

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    Re: bareback or not...

    I want to clarify that I don't fuck with money boys. I don't pay for money. I'm young and quite attractive IMHO All of these encounters have been with attractive young guys. In addition, I'm on PrEp.

    I'm not promoting bareback sex. Going raw is a personal decision. And your personal experience might defer to mine. I'm pretty sure if I had wanted to use a condom most of those guys would have been OK. But because of the submissiveness of Asian guys they won't say no. That's one of the reasons I'm so into Asians: their willingness to please me!

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    Re: bareback or not...

    Quote Originally Posted by pasiontop View Post
    I want to clarify that I don't fuck with money boys. !
    Why would you feel the need to "clarify" that to US especially ?

    You do realise that no one here gives the slightest fuck about such things and nor do we judge each other for "paying for it: or not - in fact you'll find a lot of us even prefer simply paying at times as it can help speed things along if you've maybe set yourself a daily tally to enjoy working towards. It can also then reduce the risk of any possible confusions or dramas later on perhaps too and help all concerned to be very clear that it's about it's "business" and that you're not looking for a boyfriend when the occasion calls for it too ! So you see there's a lot to be said for having a good fuck, saying here's your money now kindly toddle along there now please and - NEXT" - all in the nicest possible way of course !

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