Originally Posted by
sglad
Sorry, I think your boredom has little to do with the location. As I understand it, you're someone in your early forties with no job and no challenges in your life. As your income and social status have remained stagnant, you seem to be stuck in that budget traveller mode - not a pleasant prospect in midlife. You've also indicated your unwillingness or inability to socialise or engage in any activity where you can make new friends and gain new experiences. Life is bound to get old quickly in your situation. No one, no place owes you an exciting life - you've got to go out there, take risks and make it yourself.