This ever happened to you?

[frequent]

Then I guess your comment must also refer to those members here who have formed long-term relationships with Thai guys. They must also be "naive".

Somehow I don't think they are.

And if my "friends" still haven't asked me for financial support after all these years, then I guess they are the ones who could be considered "naive."

Somehow I don't think they are.

Not at all. I read your sex posts and they're all written in that breathless teenage style of "Can this really be happening to me!!!" That is the basis of my belief in your naivety. However your response is equally naive as, clearly, you are claiming to know the details of the intimate relationships of other people. I see arsenal who as we know relies entirely on prostitutes has "liked" your post which is a good indication of its value

[arsenal]

Whereas 70 plus year old Viagra fueled frequent has the young and the beautiful of Bangkok queuing up to service him for free.

[a447]

...you are claiming to know the details of the intimate relationships of other people.

As you are claiming to know the details of my "intimate relationships."

[Josan]

"It always surprises me how different gay falang experiences in Thailand can be. Over the twenty-two years that I've been a three-times a -year visitor, for eleven of those years a serial "offer" from bars, I've not encountered malicious and dishonest guys on the scene. I can remember, on the other hand, a guy telling me I was giving him "too much" despite the fact that I never pay above the average. And another one admitting he wasn't yet eighteen , despite what his ID said, before anything happened, thereby losing his tip and avoiding placing me in jeopardy. No thefts from my room, no harassment for another date, no unkind words, no unpleasantness. I suppose I must have been lucky."

My experiences also!

Oliver, I don't think it is luck. Its the farang!

[sglad]

Father's blood transfusion was a popular one several years ago

That's very insensitive of the boys. Don't they know that embalmed farang aren't capable of donating blood?

[frequent]

As you are claiming to know the details of my "intimate relationships."

Your casual fucks described in detail on a public forum are intimate relationships now are they? I think that's up there with the poster who once claimed a long-term relationship was 12 months "because we're gay"

[sglad]

I tend to take people on face value and trust (hope?) they are not out to scam me.

You've missed your calling. Should've gone into stand up instead of geronto-porn.

Then I guess your comment must also refer to those members here who have formed long-term relationships with Thai guys. They must also be "naive".

No, not them. Only you.

[sglad]

Your casual fucks described in detail on a public forum are intimate relationships now are they? I think that's up there with the poster who once claimed a long-term relationship was 12 months "because we're gay"

To be fair, he also buys them Sizzler steaks and a new pair of shoes every now and them. That makes it an intimate relationship.

[sglad]

There are some good ones out there you know, but be careful, the big question may come soon - "Can you give me money as mother in Hospital".

But go along with it, as I said there are some good guys out there?

I'm sorry, Blacktouch, I don't understand what you're saying - so if the guy, a sex worker, did ask for money, then he is a bad person? He is a "good guy" if he doesn't ask for money? To me, a sex worker is not bad for expecting to be renumerated for doing his job which could include spending time with his John, fucking him, listening to the John's incessant talking and BS or pretending to be in a three-day intimate relationship with the more naive and delusional Johns out there. And neither is the sex worker a "good guy" when he doesn't ask for money from time to time. Sex workers, like other people, are whole and complete human beings with multifaceted aspects to their personalities - it would take a lot more than taking or refusing money in the course of their work for anyone to be able to reasonably assess their individual characters.

In gerefan's case, it could be the guy just wanted to enjoy few free drinks with a John who's not bad to spend time with - nothing unusual in that. Or he could be throwing a sprat to catch a mackerel as others have speculated. Unless there is a serious follow up to this experience, I would just leave it at that.

[latintopxxx]

a447 is not the brightest light in the chandelier...