This ever happened to you?

[gerefan2]

I had had my eye on a boy in one of the BT bars for some time and found him in another popular bar the other day. He had moved. I offed him and went to a music bar for a few drinks. Paid him, as one would. Just drinks. No sex.

A day or two later he came to my room and I paid him again as I thought I would. Boom Boom.

Last night I met him after hours in a bar after he finished work and he refused any money even though he sat with me for at least 3 hours.

He walked me home and I offered motor bike money , again refused.

Am I being had?

I’m no virgin to this shit, but never came across this before!

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[Blacktouch]

I had had my eye on a boy in one of the BT bars for some time and found him in another popular bar the other day. He had moved. I offed him and went to a music bar for a few drinks. Paid him, as one would. Just drinks. No sex.

A day or two later he came to my room and I paid him again as I thought I would. Boom Boom.

Last night I met him after hours in a bar after he finished work and he refused any money even though he sat with me for at least 3 hours.

He walked me home and I offered motor bike money , again refused.

Am I being had?

I’m no virgin to this shit, but never came across this before!

There are some good ones out there you know, but be careful, the big question may come soon - "Can you give me money as mother in Hospital".

But go along with it, as I said there are some good guys out there?

[gerefan2]

yes,I’m sure the punch line is coming! Done all the mother Ill , buffallow die nonsence!

New one on me though!!

[colmx]

For me not unusual at all!
I presume that there was no sex on the third date and it was just a few drinks and a chat?

A lot of guys are happy just to go out and have a few paid for/sponsored drinks after work... in fact I'm usually the one dodging messages so I don't have too many come and join our table in NAB/Sinlapin/DJ/Karaoke etc after work

Of course he is possibly also playing the long game and hoping that some sort of long term sponsorship gig might come out it.

But if I was you I would just take it at face value i.e. the guy thinks you are nice to hang out with and doesn't need compensation for that time

[frequent]

yes,I’m sure the punch line is coming! Done all the mother Ill , buffallow die nonsence!

New one on me though!!

Father's blood transfusion was a popular one several years ago

[poshglasgow]

Father's blood transfusion was a popular one several years ago

Was father transfused with the blood of a buffalo?? Christ, no wonder he was sick!

Stand up, Buffalo Bill, and take a bow.

[a447]

Am I being had?

I’m no virgin to this shit, but never came across this before!

I tend to take people on face value and trust (hope?) they are not out to scam me.

Over the years I've only been asked for financial support for family members -mum can't pay her hospital bill, sister involved in car accident - on a few occasions. But I've heard stories from others, especially on the boards. It may be a case of a few bad apples. I find the vast majority of guys to be decent and honest.

But I went into my "relationships" with my two regular guys with my eyes wide open.

But I've known these guys for over 6 years and am yet to be asked for money for anything. I figure that if they were going to ask, they would have done so by now, especially as they are aware that there is no guarantee that I'll always come back.

So these types of guys are definitely out there. You just have to look for them.

[frequent]

I tend to take people on face value and trust (hope?) they are not out to scam me.

Over the years I've only been asked for financial support for family members -mum can't pay her hospital bill, sister involved in car accident - on a few occasions. But I've heard stories from others, especially on the boards. It may be a case of a few bad apples. I find the vast majority of guys to be decent and honest.

But I went into my "relationships" with my two regular guys with my eyes wide open.

But I've known these guys for over 6 years and am yet to be asked for money for anything. I figure that if they were going to ask, they would have done so by now, especially as they are aware that there is no guarantee that I'll always come back.

So these types of guys are definitely out there. You just have to look for them.

Ive always assumed you are naive and this post confirms it

[a447]

Ive always assumed you are naive and this post confirms it

Then I guess your comment must also refer to those members here who have formed long-term relationships with Thai guys. They must also be "naive".

Somehow I don't think they are.

And if my "friends" still haven't asked me for financial support after all these years, then I guess they are the ones who could be considered "naive."

Somehow I don't think they are.

[Oliver2]

It always surprises me how different gay falang experiences in Thailand can be. Over the twenty-two years that I've been a three-times a -year visitor, for eleven of those years a serial "offer" from bars, I've not encountered malicious and dishonest guys on the scene. I can remember, on the other hand, a guy telling me I was giving him "too much" despite the fact that I never pay above the average. And another one admitting he wasn't yet eighteen , despite what his ID said, before anything happened, thereby losing his tip and avoiding placing me in jeopardy.
No thefts from my room, no harassment for another date, no unkind words, no unpleasantness. I suppose I must have been lucky.