Quote Originally Posted by a447 View Post
I tend to take people on face value and trust (hope?) they are not out to scam me.

Over the years I've only been asked for financial support for family members -mum can't pay her hospital bill, sister involved in car accident - on a few occasions. But I've heard stories from others, especially on the boards. It may be a case of a few bad apples. I find the vast majority of guys to be decent and honest.

But I went into my "relationships" with my two regular guys with my eyes wide open.

But I've known these guys for over 6 years and am yet to be asked for money for anything. I figure that if they were going to ask, they would have done so by now, especially as they are aware that there is no guarantee that I'll always come back.

So these types of guys are definitely out there. You just have to look for them.
Ive always assumed you are naive and this post confirms it