This ever happened to you?

[gerefan2]

I had had my eye on a boy in one of the BT bars for some time and found him in another popular bar the other day. He had moved. I offed him and went to a music bar for a few drinks. Paid him, as one would. Just drinks. No sex.

A day or two later he came to my room and I paid him again as I thought I would. Boom Boom.

Last night I met him after hours in a bar after he finished work and he refused any money even though he sat with me for at least 3 hours.

He walked me home and I offered motor bike money , again refused.

Am I being had?

I’m no virgin to this shit, but never came across this before!

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[Blacktouch]

I had had my eye on a boy in one of the BT bars for some time and found him in another popular bar the other day. He had moved. I offed him and went to a music bar for a few drinks. Paid him, as one would. Just drinks. No sex.

A day or two later he came to my room and I paid him again as I thought I would. Boom Boom.

Last night I met him after hours in a bar after he finished work and he refused any money even though he sat with me for at least 3 hours.

He walked me home and I offered motor bike money , again refused.

Am I being had?

I’m no virgin to this shit, but never came across this before!

There are some good ones out there you know, but be careful, the big question may come soon - "Can you give me money as mother in Hospital".

But go along with it, as I said there are some good guys out there?

[sglad]

There are some good ones out there you know, but be careful, the big question may come soon - "Can you give me money as mother in Hospital".

But go along with it, as I said there are some good guys out there?

I'm sorry, Blacktouch, I don't understand what you're saying - so if the guy, a sex worker, did ask for money, then he is a bad person? He is a "good guy" if he doesn't ask for money? To me, a sex worker is not bad for expecting to be renumerated for doing his job which could include spending time with his John, fucking him, listening to the John's incessant talking and BS or pretending to be in a three-day intimate relationship with the more naive and delusional Johns out there. And neither is the sex worker a "good guy" when he doesn't ask for money from time to time. Sex workers, like other people, are whole and complete human beings with multifaceted aspects to their personalities - it would take a lot more than taking or refusing money in the course of their work for anyone to be able to reasonably assess their individual characters.

In gerefan's case, it could be the guy just wanted to enjoy few free drinks with a John who's not bad to spend time with - nothing unusual in that. Or he could be throwing a sprat to catch a mackerel as others have speculated. Unless there is a serious follow up to this experience, I would just leave it at that.

[gerefan2]

yes,I’m sure the punch line is coming! Done all the mother Ill , buffallow die nonsence!

New one on me though!!

[frequent]

yes,I’m sure the punch line is coming! Done all the mother Ill , buffallow die nonsence!

New one on me though!!

Father's blood transfusion was a popular one several years ago

[poshglasgow]

Father's blood transfusion was a popular one several years ago

Was father transfused with the blood of a buffalo?? Christ, no wonder he was sick!

Stand up, Buffalo Bill, and take a bow.

[sglad]

Father's blood transfusion was a popular one several years ago

That's very insensitive of the boys. Don't they know that embalmed farang aren't capable of donating blood?

[colmx]

For me not unusual at all!
I presume that there was no sex on the third date and it was just a few drinks and a chat?

A lot of guys are happy just to go out and have a few paid for/sponsored drinks after work... in fact I'm usually the one dodging messages so I don't have too many come and join our table in NAB/Sinlapin/DJ/Karaoke etc after work

Of course he is possibly also playing the long game and hoping that some sort of long term sponsorship gig might come out it.

But if I was you I would just take it at face value i.e. the guy thinks you are nice to hang out with and doesn't need compensation for that time

[a447]

Am I being had?

I’m no virgin to this shit, but never came across this before!

I tend to take people on face value and trust (hope?) they are not out to scam me.

Over the years I've only been asked for financial support for family members -mum can't pay her hospital bill, sister involved in car accident - on a few occasions. But I've heard stories from others, especially on the boards. It may be a case of a few bad apples. I find the vast majority of guys to be decent and honest.

But I went into my "relationships" with my two regular guys with my eyes wide open.

But I've known these guys for over 6 years and am yet to be asked for money for anything. I figure that if they were going to ask, they would have done so by now, especially as they are aware that there is no guarantee that I'll always come back.

So these types of guys are definitely out there. You just have to look for them.

[frequent]

I tend to take people on face value and trust (hope?) they are not out to scam me.

Over the years I've only been asked for financial support for family members -mum can't pay her hospital bill, sister involved in car accident - on a few occasions. But I've heard stories from others, especially on the boards. It may be a case of a few bad apples. I find the vast majority of guys to be decent and honest.

But I went into my "relationships" with my two regular guys with my eyes wide open.

But I've known these guys for over 6 years and am yet to be asked for money for anything. I figure that if they were going to ask, they would have done so by now, especially as they are aware that there is no guarantee that I'll always come back.

So these types of guys are definitely out there. You just have to look for them.

Ive always assumed you are naive and this post confirms it