oh do relax....he's just trolling u
oh do relax....he's just trolling u
Insults and name calling get you nowhere, this will not help you grow as a person, won't help you advance mentally. It does shows why Leo from Laos finally made a decision to leave abusive relationship with you, Leo from Lao found the strength to turn the page, and start his new life with someone who truly cares about him.Originally Posted by cdnmatt
Cdnmatt, you should take a look deep inside yourself, what you see may horrify you. But take this as an opportunity to become a better man, learn to love yourself, and others will love you! It is a long road, but you have to start with a first step.
'If you can't keep up with the conversation, better not try to join in at all.'
Thomas Harris, 'Hannibal', 1999
siscu58 (October 19th, 2018)
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@DoubleDutch -- You have no idea how a relationship works, do you?
You do know I'm not some retired 70 year old, just looking for some companionship with some sexual services on the side, right? This is an actual relationship.
The way this works is you compliment each other in this life, which makes each of you stronger, hence you both enjoy a better life than you otherwise would alone. However, when in a relationship what one does affects the other's life, not only directly, but also indirectly affects the lives of everyone in the other's proximity.
Do you not understand this, or?
Anyway, right now it doesn't matter, and right now I'm just worried. I know I shouldn't be because of what he did to me, but there's something not right here. Last communication I had from him was 11am yesterday with that, "you are right I get very hurt" message. His phone was off all day yesterday, and was still off when I woke up this morning. It popped online at 7:20am for a few minutes, and that was it.
There's something simply not right here. We were done hurling insults at each other, and were talking cordially again. He was helping me get my contacts in Vientiane organized, so I could move there on my own. I still needed him for a couple things, and everything was fine until I got that message.
This is completely out of character for him. Actually, this whole situation from start to finish is. I really hope he pops back online sometime soon. Even if we're not going to be together anymore, I still want to know he's at least ok.
Of course, because of my age, being 70, I don't know what it means to have a family, what it means to be in a relationship, because of my age my relationship is not 'real', makes sense!
Your relationship with Leo from Laos is real, no doubt.
I'm courious, how did you work legitimacy of my relationship. What's the math behind your calculation, is there an algorithm? At what age does a relationship between two men cease to be real? Do you have a specific number you can share, I'd love to know.
For some reason you seem to believe that only your relationship with Leo from Laos is a valid, legit relationship, curiously you make this claim while your partner is being pounded by group of young men he had just met.
It truly seems that you and Leo from Laos are experiencing once in a lifetime, Disney fairytale type love story, something none of us here will never get to enjoy. You are a lucky man, Cdnmatt, and I envy you!
francois (October 4th, 2018)
Matt, I'll have to push my next trip forward. In a few months I'll be 70 and lose the chance of a "real relationship" forever. It's sad that I was unaware of this ticking timebomb.
DoubleD ... forget all that. Cndmatt will not accept your invitation to "look deeply inwardly" as he knows not how to address that, nor do that.Cdnmatt, you should take a look deep inside yourself, what you see may horrify you
Cndmatt is as shallow as they come ... shallow as thin as the first layer of urine splashed on a sidewalk. You will get precisely nowhere going that route, as his Trumpian-style ego knows few bounds.
And don't let him bamboozle you regarding 'long term relationships.' All his history along those lines is crapola personified: all of them have petered out after 2 or 3 years ... all of them being disasters ... included the latest attempt with somebody named Leo.
Cndmatt is a message board's quintessential loser.
Just another reason why I love living in Thailand
bobsaigon2 (October 4th, 2018), gerefan2 (October 5th, 2018), paborn (October 4th, 2018)
I'm not lieing Smiles. I even PMd you his WhatsApp#, and please, by all means try to get ahold of him. He's a super friendly guy, and he'll talk to anyone.
I don't know I guess, but assuming his WhatsApp profile photo is of himself, then it will match the photos I posted of us together months ago on this forum.
I'm really hoping still it's just a phone problem, but since I seen that phone online this morning, I'm having my doubts. He said in that second message "I will keep walking" -- I'm starting to think he was literally walking away, probably from a bar.
I have no idea. Maybe he fell in love with that Barry guy, but Barry is just on holiday, so he doesn't give a shit about Leo. Bunch of them went for a night out, got drunk, and Barry did something that broke Leo's heart.
Since Leo was drunk, and he rarely drinks at all, plus with the emotional hurt of our relationship break-up in him, maybe said or did some things you shouldn't to a drunken Rishman. Then he walked away crying, sent me those two messages, then disappeared...
I have no idea, and I guess there's a chance I'm blowing this out of proportion, and it's just a phone problem, but something's telling me it's not. Please though, go ahead and try to contact him yourself. You have his contact details now.
Surely you’re heading to Vientiane very, very soon Matt? As I recall you’ve already got a Lao PA lined up, so it must be any day now?
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