Offing Waiters at Jupiter and Elsewhere

[werner]

And we have to learn Vietnamese too. Let's see: "Ban dep trai. Nuat! Len Len. 2 giờ. 65 dollars." That's: "You are handsome. Massage. Playing. 2 hours. 65 dollars"

Yes, and maybe we should learn not only Thai and Vietnamese, but also Cambodian and Burmese. Many of the most attractive guys in the bars are no longer Thai....

[Jasper]

werner,
I know three Vietnamese guys in Jupiter.
#15, #23, #24.
Is your guy one of them？

[Jasper]

I have offed a waiter at Jupiter2018 last year. Off fee 500B whereas normal gogoboys 400B.
Their shift hour is till 2 pm but I offed at around 12.
If you want him to take a shirt off, I would suggest that you ask him to sit with you, offer him a drink and go upstairs where the place is darker and cosier with sofas. He wouldn’t take his shirt off in front of full customers downstairs.

[latintopxxx]

all these uppity service providers...dont know that their station in life is...see what happens when u roll out education to the masses...should have kept them dumb in the countryside...used to be so grateful for a bht500 tip...

[werner]

werner,
I know three Vietnamese guys in Jupiter.
#15, #23, #24.
Is your guy one of them？

Jasper,

Thanks for your various comments.

I do NOT remember the number of the Vietnamese guy that I offer. But I do remember all the problems, and will be more careful in the future.

[christianpfc]

Good advice--Yes, I should ask the manager/mama-san whether I could have the waiter take his shirt off. But then I would have to provide a tip to both the boy and the mama-san.

Maybe I should just avoid Jupiter....but some of the guys there, both the models and the waiters are very attractive. Perhaps I should go there for a drink and some eye candy....Any thoughts or suggestions?

I don't go to bars that have boys in shirts on stage. Tipping a boy and mamasan to have the boy to take his shirt off? Absurd!

AVOID!

Do it Werner. Do it every time. Tell him clearly what you want and how much you'll pay him. Then go through it again to confirm. Get all the business side sorted out in the bar and then both of you can relax in the room.

I never discuss activities and tips in advance. And I never had any problem in the bars where I take boys (in Bangkok Super A one boy per year, and in Pattaya Eros, Winner, Nice, Power, Kawaii, Dream Boys between 10 and 20 boys per year).

all these uppity service providers...dont know that their station in life is...

I'm with latintopxxx. Venues like Jupiter do not work for me (prices, attitude). I live in walking distance (by my standards) to the gogo bars in Bangkok, but only go there when Farang friends ask me to join. Instead, I go to Pattaya about once per month and visit bars where all boys on stage fawn over me and I can pick whoever I want.

Something has gone horribly wrong in places like Jupiter, where boys pick their customers. But they have a base of followers, but I'm not among them.

[frequent]

I don't go to bars that have boys in shirts on stage. Tipping a boy and mamasan to have the boy to take his shirt off? Absurd!

Perhaps if you read werner's comments, christianpfc, BEFORE you went off on a rant, he wasn't asking about boys on stage but boys off stage ie. waiters

[scottish-guy]

I take all my clothes off for nothing, if that helps

The catch is I charge £5 for a carrier bag to vomit into and another £20 for me to put them back on again

[arsenal]

Hahaha. Very funny. Hehehe.

[latintopxxx]

actually that is funny...can only assume that for a change scotty is sober...and is ON his meds...