Offing Waiters at Jupiter and Elsewhere

[DoubleDutch]

And we have to learn Vietnamese too. Let's see: "Ban dep trai. Nuat! Len Len. 2 giờ. 65 dollars." That's: "You are handsome. Massage. Playing. 2 hours. 65 dollars"

$65 for 2 hours? U mad bro? Two years ago Saigon going rate was $20 for short time. Maybe this has changed, I'm going to find out at end of October.
Speaking of Saigon, do we have friendly SGT members in Vietnam, in Saigon especially? Looking for friendly local foreignef for cup of coffee, and chatting about world affairs.
My thinking is, Pattaya is getting boring, so lets try Saigon for 1 months, maybe it's nice for longer stay, and maybe stay there all winter.

I tried Sihanoukville about 8 months ago, again bored in Pattaya, but after 1 week couldn't wait to get out of there, but had to stay and suffer, waiting for Thai visa. Apps were fairly dead, apparently Khmer guys have all migrated to Jomtien. There was this one really attractive local, I spotted him wondering around the beach, with only one shoe on. I made my move, and to start a convo, in my best attempt at faking empathy wondered what happened. H explained that he had lost his other shoe the night before. Makes sense! I like to help people, we immediately went to the market to buy him new pair of flip flops. We found the shoes, I felt like splurging, and went for $3 flip flops, he was very happy, so it seemed like a good moment to enquire how does he feel about a quick fuck. Guess what he said! He asked he glad to throw a quick fuck, wait for it......... for $200 US dollars! I nearly fainted. Naturally I though I heard wrong, so I asked over, and over what is his rate, and what currency are we talking about. Turned out I did not misunderstand him in the first place, he explained that he was once paid $200 USD, and he now he won't go for less. I wanted to grab back the $3 flip flops that I had just gifted him.

Sianoukville beach bars were being thorn down around that time in March, to make room for condos, as if many new Chinese high rise casinos were not ugly enough.
The only place that had not changed for worse was Otras beach area, stil very, very nice, but it is too far from downtown, unless you have a bike.

Anyways, back to Vietnam, or what was the topic?

[scottish-guy]

all these uppity service providers...dont know that their station in life is...see what happens when u roll out education to the masses...should have kept them dumb in the countryside...used to be so grateful for a bht500 tip...

A deceased friend of mine used to bemoan the fact that the could no longer get a fuck in Sri Lanka in exchange for a couple of ballpoint pens.

[scottish-guy]

...this is desirable.But it is also very difficult, sometimes impossible, because of language barriers. I speak several languages fluently, but unfortunately, only a few expressions in Thai. I suppose the real solution would be for me to.. learn Thai.........

Werner, you're creating difficulties:

I've never met a business boy in any part of the world who didn't recognise numbers written on a bit of paper.

As for getting activities across: simply form a circle with the thumb and index finger of your left hand and rapidly move your right index in and out. Then point to indicate who's gonna be the taker.

As for oral sex just make a fist with you right hand and bring it up to your mouth and move it back and forth whilst (in synchronisation) poking the inside of your left cheek with your tongue.

I believe there are members into rimming (which I find disgusting, but each to his own) and the 'sign language' for that is pretty obvious - simply make two fists, bring them up to your mouth, draw them apart and wag your tongue in the newly created space.

Trust me, it all works a treat, and not only will you get it all sorted out before going back to your loom, you'll be the centre of attention in the bar (which is always my aim anyway).

And even more so in Family Mart if it's one of their assistants you are trying to pick up

[dinagam]

There is a simpler method :
By showing the boys several pictures of the usual activities on the smartphone, you'll be able to see the immediate response, and if positive, to go ahead discussing the expected recompense.

[scottish-guy]

Not half as much fun as my suggestions

[latintopxxx]

scotty is on a roll....im acually really liking his posts...i think I need meds now..

[Blacktouch]

Fully agree.

Always agree beforehand what you want to do and how much this will cost. And confirm again before getting to your accommodation. This will stop the boy trying to take advantage of you and the situation.

To give you an idea, I always ask the boy these questions:

1. Do you kiss? (I love kissing, and that's what turns me on).
2. Do you suck?
3. Do you fuck? (top, bottom or vers)
4. How much money? (I like and perfer short time fun for one hour.

If the boy can't answer or agree to the above questions, I say thank you and move on to the next one.

Simple as that!

[Blacktouch]

Arsenal, Good advice. Yes, this is desirable.

But it is also very difficult, sometimes impossible, because of language barriers. I speak several languages fluently, but unfortunately, only a few expressions in Thai.

I suppose the real solution would be for me to get my act together and learn Thai......but that is another topic......

There is an Translate App called "SayHi". Download it to your phone. It's excellent, and works well.

You just speak to your phone and it will translate your English language to Thai (or which other languages you choose), then it will speak the chosen language out for your guest to hear.

[Blacktouch]

Jasper,

Thanks for your various comments.

I do NOT remember the number of the Vietnamese guy that I offer. But I do remember all the problems, and will be more careful in the future.

Apologies for repeating:

Always agree beforehand what you want to do and how much this will cost. And confirm again before getting to your accommodation. This will stop the boy trying to take advantage of you and the situation.

To give you an idea, I always ask the boy these questions:

1. Do you kiss? (I love kissing, and that's what turns me on).
2. Do you suck?
3. Do you fuck? (top, bottom or vers)
4. How much money? (I like and perfer short time fun for one hour.

If the boy can't answer or agree to the above questions, I say thank you and move on to the next one.

Simple as that!

[Blacktouch]

As for getting activities across: simply form a circle with the thumb and index finger of your left hand and rapidly move your right index in and out. Then point to indicate who's gonna be the taker.

As for oral sex just make a fist with you right hand and bring it up to your mouth and move it back and forth whilst (in synchronisation) poking the inside of your left cheek with your tongue.

This is so true, and works everytime for me if there are any language barriers?