Reasonable ands thanks for your response. I don't and won't live in a gay ghetto and believe me, in Fort Lauderdale, the area has those for the asking. However, I do believe that if we want the scene tro remain we have to support the bars - screw the apps - and the restaurants that don't even wink when we bring in our BF. I even wonder if the non-gay hotels who are friendly would see the need if we had no choices to keep them honest.