ha ha I know many Thai guys who've worked the bars for years and on encountering a "newbie" happily roll out their tried and tested story ( as backed up by the manasan) of "I just work bar one week already, I not like it here in Pattaya, I shy, I think maybe I just go home to Issan again maybe, but..... I like you, I don't know why, I think you have good heart and you take care me, so maybe I go with you one time to try, if I go with you WILL you take care me?"
Ha, so maybe our Thai's and Japanese friends aren't that different in that regard at both being damned good actors when it suits them - mind you I'm a dab hand at " Ohhhh I very rich, if I have good time with you ohhhhhh I tip you SOOOO well" ........and after wards .....so, here's your 500 baht, thanks! lol ( ok I'm joking I wouldn't "really' (get away with) do that.