I offed him last night, do I want to do so again tonight?

[poshglasgow]

I often find myself caught up in the following scenario:

I off a certain boy (A) from a bar and we enjoy each other's company. I say that I will see him again.

The next night I enter the same bar in which I found boy (A) but take a huge fancy to another boy (B), that I think I might off.

Boy (A) is making all kinds of gestures seeking to step off the stage and sit with me, but I hold back and smile awkwardly, for I am very interested in boy (B).

This is uncomfortable; I hate the thought of upsetting boy (A) but I very much want boy (B) to come and sit with me.

I leave the bar with Boy (B), passing a rather despondent boy (A), who watches me from the stage as I move off with my new 'catch of the day'.

How do others manage this kind of scenario?

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[Josan]

I do the same thing. The only thing I add is as I am leaving with B I go up to the stage and give A 100 baht and say, 'check you later'.

[colmx]

I hand (A) 200B in guilt money on my way out the door....
That way he's kept sweet in case (B) is a dud

[goji]

Yes, I've been there.

1 I try to set expectations by explaining that I'm a butterfly on the first date. Particularly if it's a gogo bar with more than one cute lad.

2 I also ask myself "would he go with me if I'm not paying ?". The answer is obviously no, so I should keep that in mind and resist any pressure, because I choose how my money is spent.

3 Remember they have seen it all before & are most likely only pressurizing you because they know it's a good sales tactic.

4 There is always the option of visiting different bars for the next couple of nights.

[paborn]

Same as Colmx - 200 as I leave. I have also called both boys over , bought drinks and made the choice , again with the extra tip. I do this so as to acknowledge the guy from last night. Somehow it seems more polite. Of course when I sit at toy boys with my favorite manager he has made my butterfly status clear.

[Oceans]

The boys seem to have a way to make you feel guilty, but keep in mind, 5 seconds after you leave he doesn’t even remember you where there. They are so used to being told No, it has barely any efffect on them.

[frequent]

A variation on Buyer's Remorse? I try not to make such commitments, invariably answering the inevitable question "Do you have a boyfriend?" in the affirmative, saying he's up-country (Surin, Udon, Ubon, Roi Et, Yasothon, Sisaket - take any one at random) if further particulars are sought

[arsenal]

Surely the time to worry is when Boy A doesn't try and get you to off him again. I find a big smile and a thumbs up as soon as you sit down followed immediately by instant looking at other boys closes the situation down.

[paborn]

Yes, I've done that two - my previous ploy is deployed when Boy A has a strong repeat possibility. Otherwise, life is too short.

[a447]

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