Vietnamese in bars

[paborn]

it's also so much easier to glance at a watch then to pull out a phone and announce your checking the time. Some people have discetion, others don't.

[goji]

A watch is visible with a quick rotation of the wrist. A phone has to be got out of my pocket, so more work. I use one of those reliable old Casio watches, so no one will be interested in stealing that.
Steering back to the topic, whatever type of watch I wear, it's still not going to get those Scorpion boys into a passionate sex session.

[paborn]

it's still not going to get those Scorpion boys into a passionate sex session.
Truth!

I used to wear Casios but they have the hardest interface to understand and the manuals worthless. A simple analog for me.

[arsenal]

I've always considered that a pocket watch on a chain and worn on the waistcoat cannot be beaten for a sense of drama and suggestion of important business to sttend to. Not practical in Pattaya perhaps.

[frequent]

Typical Vietnamese money boy profile in Bangkok on Grindr - note the request for "English please". Photoshopped profile pic. Almost certainly staying in the Oasis Apartments on Silom 3 - I think they must have a permanent room or two there:

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[paborn]

"dumb"? Not only are we all wired differently but some of us are risk adverse. Prostitution is actually illegal in Thailand. Why would I call the police over the price of a good dinner?

[Oceans]

Most of the Vietnamese boys are from the same area. It’s very small, very poor, very rural. They grow up in a very straight society. They all know each other. All went to school with each other. Their families expect them to be married and have children by the time they are 25. Many of them have their girlfriends and wives in Bangkok with them. Couple of areas around Sathorn are small Vietnamese villages.

Most of the complaints are with bottoming and deep kissing. Most are just never going to do it. Bottoming, never, Kissing, if you can build a repore can happen. There are a few gay boys, but very few.
These boys grew up in an area where they knew nothing of being gay. Social media has changed the world.

As was mentioned earlier. A couple of boys came to Bangkok looking for work. They ended up at Scorpion. They could make 100 baht or so just for customer buying drink. That’s 100 baht more than they made in Vietnam. They worked rice fields, earnings going to family. Then they found out they could make 1500-2000 baht going with customer. It became mind over matter. Word got around back to Vietnam, money could be made in Bangkok and the pipeline of boys started.
But they have all held the line at bottoming and kissing. Just something they were brought up saying, not something you do.
Most are good tops though.

If you have a good conversation with boy, you can have a good time. They can rush things if you don’t make it clear what your looking for. If you have time to spend with a boy more than once, they can surprise you.
Again, growing up in small, poor area with little outside world contact, they can be a bit socially timid . Most of the boys have never been to Hanoi or Ho Chi Minh City. Bangkok is first contact with big city life. You can tell the difference in boys that have been around for awhile vs the new boys,

Just my take after knowing and talking to many of the Vietnamese boys.

[Jellybean]

Welcome to Sawatdee forum, Oceans and thank you for sharing your knowledge of Vietnamese boys.

[paborn]

Oceans , thank you so much and I echo your welcome. A clear and reasoned post. I look forward to many more.

[Oceans]

Thanks Been a long term lurker, but this is a subject I have a bit of experience with and thought I would share.