Smiles (July 5th, 2018)
I always thought the laws in Laos etc prohibited you from sleeping overnight with local visitors. So one obvious solution is to pick up some company form another country & invite him on your visit to Laos. If your Cambodian boyfriend checks in with you, I believe the law is satisfied.
As for the "bait" at Sorpion, there are thousands of unavailable guys in the world It's just an easy adjustment to view the Scorpiion boys as also unavailable & walk a few yards further to Classic Boys. Even on holiday, there are loads of "unavailable" boys.
I am with you..wham, bam, thank you ....now leave me alone....
frequent (July 5th, 2018)
I gave up long-time years ago.
I couldn't get much sleep with a hot body next to me all night, and neither could he because of my continually wandering hands and my snoring. But the sex in the morning was always amazing for me, probably less so for him.
Sleeping with a partner, however, is a different ball game, so to speak.
I'm the same really. Prefer short time. Asian rent boys are incredibly sexy to me, but I don't trust em. Maybe that's part of why I find them sexy? Who knows? And who cares? Bottom line: I don't want them around when I'm not able to keep a sharp eye on my possessions.
There was one case in Cambodia, though, where I had a massage boy who was incredibly, relentlessly nice, and really wanted to sleep with me as often as he could. I actually did not have the heart to turn him down. For some reason I trusted him too. Turns out, my trust was not misplaced, amazingly. Had a great time, but it was heartbreaking to leave him. So never again.
arsenal (July 5th, 2018)
I know this sounds silly, but I tend to just trust people - a legacy of living in Japan I think, where I've never met a dishonest person. Incredible, I know, but true. That's not to say there are no dishonest people in Japan; of course there are but it was something I never gave a second thought to. I could give countless examples of their honesty.
In my days as a butterfly in Thailand I had many total strangers come back to my room. Valuables were kept in the safe, but nothing outside the safe was ever stolen. Perhaps I was just lucky.
The only incidence of theft I've come across in Thailand was when a boy in a massage place in Pattaya stole my very expensive watch after I'd left it behind. I went straight back to get it but in those few minutes it had magically disappeared.
We have to be responsible for our possessions and in that case, I wasn't. I only realised once I was on the plane that I was still wearing it. Normally I bring a cheaper watch which, if stolen or lost, would not bother me.
Also, it was my fault for leaving it behind.
Overall, I find the Thai boys very honest.
I agree, I take the same precautions and have never had an issue. Over many years treveling in Lattin America there were times that, no matter how well secured, something would be stolen. Camera and money in the safe?? Ok, I'll take a bottle of cologne. Something, anything - so when I say that nothing has ever been disturbed in Thailand I mean it.
By the way, my ciurrent travel watch was chosen by typing, "cheap plastic watch" into Amazon.
Why do your guys still use a watch these days no we all have a mobile phone? Haven't used a watch in ages. I just look at my phone.
llz (July 6th, 2018)
I seldom use a mobile, either at home or in Thailand. I prefer 100 bht watches from Second Road. Never buy a battery, just a new watch.