Why I pay for sex with Asian money boys

[extronaut]

Basically, I can tell when they're having fun. Unlike women, it's harder for them to fake it. There's telltale signs, like erections, and stains on the sheets.

I aim for the 20-27 age range. I want someone with plenty of energy. But, any younger than twenty, and I find they can have a bad attitude, especially towards hygiene.

I find I can get amazing sex out of them. Especially when I let him know there's a chance of a bonus if he does a good job.

If he accepts those terms, I then go hell for leather to try and turn him on in bed. I will do things to him you haven't even seen in porn films. Whatever it takes. It's worth it, because he then feels he has to compete, in order to earn his bonus, and the fun just escalates.

I'm usually pretty honest with them. I tell them I'm not after LT. I'm traveling. I will leave. I don't tell them exactly when. Sometimes, they pretend to be heartbroken that I don't love them, but really they're just trying to manipulate me because they want to continue getting money out of me. And I like that! This isn't a serious relationship, and nobody gets seriously hurt when it ends. Everyone leaves (pretty well) happy.

I never tell anybody I know about my little dalliances while on holiday in Asia. Partly because I'm pretty sure nobody in the world wants to know. But also I'm a bit embarrassed, because it all just seems so sleazy. All the same, as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult, and as long as we're all having fun, is there any harm? Seriously?

[gerefan2]

I never tell anybody I know about my little dalliances while on holiday in Asia. Partly because I'm pretty sure nobody in the world wants to know.

True.

[arsenal]

Am I to understand extronaut' s post correctly. Is he saying he pays guys considerably younger than himself for SEX. This will have Mother Superior Scottish Guy harrumphing her knickers here to get all high and mighty. You have been warned. She'll be here soon.

[arsenal]

She didn't come. Surprising. No Mother Superior moralising about 'desperadoes' and sticking emojis into everything to show how hilarious.it is. Disappointed.

Anyway. For a start extronaut I doubt your friends would be that surprised as I dont think they believe you're spending your time shlopping around temples. It's the honesty at the start of the encounter that virtually guarantees a good off. What do you want and what will you pay means all business is done beforehand and then both parties can relax. Asian boys are particularly excellent in the gay for pay department and Thai boys are number one in my view.

[extronaut]

Anyway. For a start extronaut I doubt your friends would be that surprised as I dont think they believe you're spending your time shlopping around temples. .

Maybe. But it would be more true, if I did most of my travels in Thailand, which has that reputation. In the last five years, I've (officially) done Thailand a couple of times, but I've also been to China, Laos, Cambodia, and particularly Vietnam.

Vietnam is not a great sex tourism destination. It has that facility there, but it's really not ideal for it. I go there because I honestly like the place, the culture, the people, and even the language. I'm always boring people about it.

I think some of my friends secretly assume I'm a sex tourist, but it's mostly just guys who wish they were themselves, if they could just get away from the office,, or from the wife. They don't know what i get up to there so they fantasise. Anyone who knows me, also knows that I'm fascinated with all aspects of Asia.

[extronaut]

Am I to understand extronaut' s post correctly. Is he saying he pays guys considerably younger than himself for SEX. This will have Mother Superior Scottish Guy harrumphing her knickers here to get all high and mighty. You have been warned. She'll be here soon.

Why? What am I doing that's actually wrong? Someone tell me.

[a447]

extronaut wrote :

I find I can get amazing sex out of them.

I find 90% of my encounters reward me with amazing sex. But that's only because i can enjoy a much more powerful orgasm, as I'm turned on by Asian guys. Most guys I think enjoy the sex, in as much as they get to cum at the end of it. But to be honest, I've only met a few who actually love the various activities we get up to in bed. My guy in Bangkok is one of them - he definitely enjoys the sex and can't get enough. When I tell him I've had enough pounding for one day, he literally begs to be allowed to continue.

"More. Ok? Nit noy. Can I?"

I always give in to him. And because of that I'm now able to go for a lot longer.

I then go hell for leather to try and turn him on in bed.

I can only turn them on befire we get into bed. Then I put my wallet back in the safe.

I will do things to him you haven't even seen in porn films.

I'm not that adventurous, but he is. Every encounter has some kind of surprise, as he studies porn to get ideas.

When I was growing up there was no porn. But we had heaps of fun trying out the 48 sexual positions - shijuu-hatte- identified in Japanese classics. We had them on a set of cards. Others had them in the form of charts or booklets. In our case, the bottom would draw out a card and I'd attempt the position. It was hilarious but we both got really turned on. So who needs modern porn?

as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult, and as long as we're all having fun, is there any harm?

So long as unwanted pressure is not put on the guy to do things he is uncomfortable with, then none whatsoever!

Arsenal wrote:

Asian boys are particularly excellent in the gay for pay department..

You can say that again!

[arsenal]

Yes a447, I think I will. EXCELLENT. It cannot he stressed enough by both myself and a447 (seriously experienced connosieurs of Thai guys) how important it is to be totally upfront with the boy about what you want and how much you'll pay.

[extronaut]

It cannot he stressed enough by both myself and a447 (seriously experienced connosieurs of Thai guys) how important it is to be totally upfront with the boy about what you want and how much you'll pay.

The approach I tried on my last Asian sojourn was to offer a price range, say (the equivalent of) 1000-1500 baht for a couple of hours service, depending on how I feel at the end of it.

Not all boys were willing to accept those terms. But when they did, it seemed to work really well. Usually they got the full amount, unless they did something wrong, like cum all over my sheets prematurely.

Interestingly, they seemed more willing to accept these terms in Thailand than either Cambodia or Vietnam.

[arsenal]

That sounds fine extronaut. But presumably on the ocassions you pay at the lower end of the range it leaves the encounter somewhat soured.