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    Re: Tell me I'm not crazy...

    Quote Originally Posted by joe552 View Post
    If only it was an ending.
    I was using the phrase ironically - the massage boy context. If you ask arsenal he'll be able to confirm that, as he's able unerringly to determine what it is a poster "really" means. That's why he's a "Moderator"

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    Re: Tell me I'm not crazy...

    Quote Originally Posted by bobsaigon2 View Post
    It's all entertainment. Most of those who respond to Matt do so because they have the ability to suspend disbelief for the few moments it takes to submit a post. Shortly thereafter, they return to incredulity, but participating in the saga adds a little amusement to life.
    Those are exactly my thoughts. It is a form of entertainment. Enjoys its absurdity.

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    Re: Tell me I'm not crazy...

    I can confirm it.

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    Re: Tell me I'm not crazy...

    Well cdnmatt...You know you will take him back.....get over it...whats a little cheating here and there.....forgive and forget??

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    Re: Tell me I'm not crazy...

    Quote Originally Posted by Blueskytoday View Post
    Well cdnmatt...You know you will take him back.....get over it...whats a little cheating here and there.....forgive and forget??

    No. I know many gay people have open relationships, but I'm not one of them. Pretty much everyone both of us has talked to agrees that cheating is simply inexcusable. I don't care that we're gay.

    I don't sit here wprlomg every day to provide us with a good life, so he can go fuck people behind my back, and lie to me about it.

    Everyone agrees with me except you sex tourists. Thankfully he's been back in his village the last couple days, and I guess decided to tell everyone. His friends said they would kill him if he did that to him. He even told his grandma, and I guess got a pretty good scolding, so thank you grandma I've never met, because that helped.

    Now we just need to work on his self confidence. I know when he looks at himself in the mirror, he just views himself as some poor, worthless rice farmer from rural Laos. We need to change that so he views himself as the truly amazing, loving, intelligent, strong, healthy, and empathetic human being that he is. Being born poor isn't an excuse. It's ok, I'm good at this type of thing, so will change him around. Already gave him some documentaries and interviews of Trevor Noah and his book Born a Crime, and have lots more here. Hell, the author of Harry Potter was homeless in London when she wrote the first book.

    I know him, and know he's capable of anything he wants in this life. He just needs to believe in himself.

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    Re: Tell me I'm not crazy...

    Quote Originally Posted by cdnmatt View Post
    No. I know many gay people have open relationships, but I'm not one of them. Pretty much everyone both of us has talked to agrees that cheating is simply inexcusable. I don't care that we're gay.

    Everyone agrees with me except you sex tourists....
    Sadly, Matt, you are simply a prisoner of the Christian heterosexual paradigm, also known as heteronormative behaviour - one spouse, lifelong fidelity. Or in your case, fidelity until the next true love comes along

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    Re: Tell me I'm not crazy...

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    Sadly, Matt, you are simply a prisoner of the Christian heterosexual paradigm, also known as heteronormative behaviour - one spouse, lifelong fidelity. Or in your case, fidelity until the next true love comes along
    Though monogamy does nothing for me either I have to acknowlege that it's pretty common; many Jews, A-Theists, Bald Eagles and Angel Fish mate for life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FarangRuMak View Post
    Though monogamy does nothing for me either I have to acknowlege that it's pretty common; many Jews, A-Theists, Bald Eagles and Angel Fish mate for life.
    They also breed - we don't. Only lesbians and bed-wetters do that sort of thing in same-sex relationships

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    Re: Tell me I'm not crazy...

    Quote Originally Posted by Blueskytoday View Post
    Well cdnmatt...You know you will take him back.....get over it...whats a little cheating here and there.....forgive and forget??
    In the world of soap operas, which matt may be emulating, monogamy is the highest virtue and cheating is the biggest violation of trust. I think monogamy is vastly overrated and a bit of sexual wandering is normal. Viewed from afar Matt's dilemma is wonderful soap opera like drama.

    Economists talk about diminishing marginal utility. Basically the first banana you eat is tasty but the fifth one in a row is not so good. Matt. Take a diminishing marginal utility view. You and your boyfriend have eaten five bananas in a row and you both need some variety. That banana will be fast again in a few days.

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    Re: Tell me I'm not crazy...

    Quote Originally Posted by kittyboy View Post
    In the world of soap operas, which matt may be emulating, monogamy is the highest virtue and cheating is the biggest violation of trust. I think monogamy is vastly overrated and a bit of sexual wandering is normal. Viewed from afar Matt's dilemma is wonderful soap opera like drama.

    Economists talk about diminishing marginal utility. Basically the first banana you eat is tasty but the fifth one in a row is not so good. Matt. Take a diminishing marginal utility view. You and your boyfriend have eaten five bananas in a row and you both need some variety. That banana will be fast again in a few days.
    Hmm. It should read that banana will be tasty again in a few days.

    Xxxx auto correct.

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