Tell me I'm not crazy...

[cdnmatt]

Matt - Give the guy a break. Maybe he just needed a good fuck and you have said you don’t fuck so who’d blame him for a little sojourn to Bangkok. Wouldn’t worry too much about the cost of the hotel either. Small fry compared to the devaluation of your bitcoin in recent weeks. Welcome him back with open arms on his return and prepare a few wonderful surprises for him so he feels really special and knows how much you love him.

No, it's over. He's not coming back.

I gave him a break, twice actually. The first time was about 8 months ago with some guy from Vietnam while he was in Vientiane, and basically got raped. I let that go because our relationship wasn't anywhere near as deep as it is / was. Then once about 2 months ago, and I gave him a pass on that due to his mother being on her death bed.

Again, doesn't matter. He's not coming back. If he e-mails me an address, I'll mail his computer, guitar, clotes and everything to him.

His refusal of denial is enough for me, to let me know I'm not being crazy. He's just being a lair and chating on me. Sorry, but no, not allowed.

[christianpfc]

YAWN!

And many still fall for it and reply!

Facebook is a good way to check where someone is and what he does (provided he posts regularly). But as a lot of information is in pictures, Matt would need someone to explain what is in the pictures, and as most of the Thai is rather cryptic (I often have to ask an educated Thai friend to explain what a stupid Thai friend wrote), depending on Matt's comprehension of Thai (the version the youth speak and write) someone to translate as well.

[joe552]

Well at least Matt won't have to go to the trouble of moving to Vientiane. There's always a silver lining.

[cdnmatt]

No, Vientiane move is still on, I think. He showed up this afternoon, and now has a key to the new lock I put on the gate. We had a few crying sessions together, got angry at each other, some shit got broken, I think the guitar is in a few pieces now, etc. You know, just a typical day.

I promised him I wouldn't post any details publically, and I'm quite confident he reads this board, so will leave it there.

Fuck me, is he ever glad he saved my life upon going blind.

[Andaman!]

Matt - At 5.28 pm Thai Time you wrote:

“No, it's over. He's not coming back...........Again, doesn't matter. He's not coming back. If he e-mails me an address, I'll mail his computer, guitar, clotes and everything to him. His refusal of denial is enough for me, to let me know I'm not being crazy. He's just being a lair and chating on me. Sorry, but no, not allowed”

.......and just over six hours later at 11.53pm you wrote

No, Vientiane move is still on, I think. He showed up this afternoon, and now has a key to the new lock I put on the gate. We had a few crying sessions together, got angry at each other, some shit got broken, I think the guitar is in a few pieces now, etc. You know, just a typical day..

Did Leo arrive just minutes after your first post? Otherwise he would have arrived in the evening not the afternoon. Beginning to wonder if he arrived at all? Does Leo exist at all? Are you a reincarnation of Beachlover?

[Rolling Stone]

Why am I not surprised?

[scottish-guy]

Matt, no offence, but UK social workers would call this a "chaotic lifestyle" and attempt to take both of you into care.

Mind you, with UK social workers record you'd probably have murdered each other before places of safety were found.

[bobsaigon2]

It's all entertainment. Most of those who respond to Matt do so because they have the ability to suspend disbelief for the few moments it takes to submit a post. Shortly thereafter, they return to incredulity, but participating in the saga adds a little amusement to life.

[frequent]

Aw. A happy ending

[joe552]

Aw. A happy ending

If only it was an ending.