Oh, he's probably embellishing the story somewhat.
Never mind that. If the sex is good, the company is good & you're limiting financial contributions & retaining your clarity of thought (ie non emotional), just let it go & be nice to him.
Monogamy is overrated.
Gosh. What's going to happen to the move to Laos, happy families with the two kids, Matt's job? This saga can run for weeks! Of course Matt doesn't have a great track record with relationships - there's the yet-to-be-divorced "husband" back in Canada, the whole Kim saga, and now Leo the Lao
christianpfc (January 28th, 2018)
No, that's the exact story I've been given so far. He's still in Bangkok at the moment.
I'm livid. Really, how fucken stupid do you think I am to believe the story I posted in the OP? I've been living with him for 18 months, we've been through loads together, and he knows full well I'm far more intelligent than him, so uncertain as to why he'd try a story like this on me.
Whatever, up to him. I'll go bury myself in work.
For fuck sakes, I'm blind, not stupid.
An SGT poll right thereOriginally Posted by cdnmatt
neddy3 (January 28th, 2018)
I can't actually see what the problem is Matt?
As SG says, Leo goes to BKK, he then goes on the piss, has a great time in DJ station and then crashes in an overpriced (for him) hotel
Where are the lies? What has he done to earn your wrath?
Buffalo me die! Send Money!
No problem with him going to DJ Station and getting drunk with friends. I keep telling him I want him to go do things like that.
His story is his older sister has some family in Bangkok, he had the address of their house before he left, and was going to stay there. Gosh darnit, the house was just too small though.
Thankfully, he has a gay friend who lives in Bangkok, and that friend apparently hopped up from a phone call, and met Leo, and they shared a 2000 baht/night hotel together for a few days. He didn't stay at the friend's room / house, but they decided to get a hotel together instead. They're friends, so no sex was had, and they only slept together in the same room.
How plausible does that sound to you?
He had two rules with me. Don't cheat on me, and don't lie to me.
Now he just fucked everything. Our move to Vientiane, the Basi ceremony, taking those kids in, going to visit Canada, everything out the window.
All sounds perfectly plausible to me!
My BF has gone to visit relatives plenty of time, but when he got there realised that he was imposing on other people and has taken a room elsewhere
(as have I, e.g. when we have visited the homes of farang friends of mine)
Similarly he has often shared hotel rooms, apartments etc with gay friends, never once did I throw a hissy fit and presume that he was having some kind of nefarious affair!
Not a day goes by on FB without me seeing a Pattaya based friend staying in a hotel in BKK with their mates, similarly I don't presume they are having sex, I presume they are sharing a room and are out hitting the clubs together
Buffalo me die! Send Money!
Oh come on folks. Forget the extraneous pseudo drama. A number of others (myself included) predicted exactly the above scenario would sooner or later be announced.
I'm not telling him he's not crazy, that's for sure.
Just another reason why I love living in Thailand
a447 (January 28th, 2018), christianpfc (January 28th, 2018), frequent (January 28th, 2018)
On a point of information:
Was your prediction predicated upon (I hate when others use this phrase) your knowledge of
(a) the usual pattern of gay Thai/Farang relationships?
or
(b) the usual Plot devices that are common to all Soap-Operas?
(c) Matt
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