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    Re: 3some

    Quote Originally Posted by nordicguy View Post
    . Fully straight boys don't exist,
    Wrong! They do exist.

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    Quote Originally Posted by francois View Post
    Wrong! They do exist.
    Fully gay and fully straight are cultural categories that we use to navigate in life. This is especially true for younger guys, even though they on the surface tend to be very firm in claiming to be straight unless they are gay. Luckily, in Thaliand and other SE Asian countries, the gay/straight categories seem to be tight to the public image and not so much what you actually do in bed, e.g. the example of seemingly straight Thai boys with Thai girl friends accepting varoius offers from farangs to join them in bed for a small amount of pocket money. I personally believe that the money plays an important role in the this - the money can (totally unconsciously!) be a good psychological excuse for the Thais boy to join the farang in bed. It might not lead to a glorious money boy career for the boy, but it can serve as an opportunity to explore your sexuality.

    I consider myself gay, but I know that it's not entirely true if I claim that I have only thought of boys and guys since my young teenage years, but it has MAINLY been guys and boys for sure, and over time I - knowingly or unknowingly - have developed an identity as being almost exclusively gay because that is just easier to manage and defend in public, especially in the west where we insist that there is a clear and consistent link between your public/family sexual identiy and what you actually are doing in bed. In SE Asia, they tend to be a little more willing to split up the public/family image (cultural institutions) and the bedroom reality and human sexuality (bodily physics, attraction, fun etc ) outside the gay/straight categories.

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    Re: 3some

    Quote Originally Posted by nordicguy View Post
    Fully gay and fully straight are cultural categories that we use to navigate in life. This is especially true for younger guys, even though they on the surface tend to be very firm in claiming to be straight unless they are gay. Luckily, in Thaliand and other SE Asian countries, the gay/straight categories seem to be tight to the public image and not so much what you actually do in bed, e.g. the example of seemingly straight Thai boys with Thai girl friends accepting varoius offers from farangs to join them in bed for a small amount of pocket money. I personally believe that the money plays an important role in the this - the money can (totally unconsciously!) be a good psychological excuse for the Thais boy to join the farang in bed. It might not lead to a glorious money boy career for the boy, but it can serve as an opportunity to explore your sexuality.

    I consider myself gay, but I know that it's not entirely true if I claim that I have only thought of boys and guys since my young teenage years, but it has MAINLY been guys and boys for sure, and over time I - knowingly or unknowingly - have developed an identity as being almost exclusively gay because that is just easier to manage and defend in public, especially in the west where we insist that there is a clear and consistent link between your public/family sexual identiy and what you actually are doing in bed. In SE Asia, they tend to be a little more willing to split up the public/family image (cultural institutions) and the bedroom reality and human sexuality (bodily physics, attraction, fun etc ) outside the gay/straight categories.
    I disagree. All my reading, including the Kinsey report, indicates that the current academic view is that human sexuality is a linear projection with absolute hetero at one end and absolute homsexuality at the other, along the line connecting the two are varying degrees of sexual desires. Bisexuality is in the middle - just a graphic way of looking at it. There are those men who would rather die than touch another man and those, like me, who can barely tell one woman from another. Seriously, when watching crime dramas with larrge casts I can get confused because I can't seem to remember the various female faces. We've all had the one who will let you touch them for cash , simply can't get hard, need to watch porn and forget you're there. This is not simply a way "to navigate life" is there position on the spectrum of human response to sex.

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    Re: 3some

    Quote Originally Posted by goodtimeth View Post
    I never went to Pattaya, so you are safe. I won’t inflate the price there

    I know that most boys would take less. Sometimes I am myself surprised that they ask very little.

    But I really enjoy straight boys to fuck me. And it’s not easy to get the ones I like with small money. Because they probably would not be interested. And I need to give a bit more to the boys who convince their friends to join. So, sometimes it’s needed to give more.
    In that case, I fully understand your increase in fees to the boys. I guess if you want a certain type, you have to pay for it. Point taken!

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    Re: 3some

    Quote Originally Posted by francois View Post
    Wrong! They do exist.
    Pattaya is in the midst of low season and boys are anxious....Yesterday was at one of my favorite go go bars with all straight guys.....I know many well, I asked one who is quite well hung if he could top another guy I liked, after they had a brief discussion the 3 of us were together and one of the "straight" guys was the bottom....you can fill in the rest!
    "In the land of the blind the one eyed man is king"

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    [QUOTE=Manforallseasons;242705....you can fill in the rest![/QUOTE]

    As the straight guy said to you after he came ??

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    Quote Originally Posted by Manforallseasons View Post
    the 3 of us were together and one of the "straight" guys was the bottom....you can fill in the rest!
    As the latest member to have a 3 some, we would love to know how much it cost...well I would!

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    Re: 3some

    For those who care: I am a stalwart linear projection. At one time I seemed to be a leaning linear, but I put the kibosh on that after meeting a pure projection in a gay bar in Vancouver. I've never looked back.

    Thank you and have a good day.
    Just another reason why I love living in Thailand


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    Re: 3some

    Quote Originally Posted by Manforallseasons View Post
    Pattaya is in the midst of low season and boys are anxious....Yesterday was at one of my favorite go go bars with all straight guys.....I know many well, I asked one who is quite well hung if he could top another guy I liked, after they had a brief discussion the 3 of us were together and one of the "straight" guys was the bottom....you can fill in the rest!
    Wow, that sounds almost too good. Just asking, but what happened when you came? Kick the door down?
    Just another reason why I love living in Thailand


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    Smiles do you think it wise for someone your age to be awake at this hour?
    "In the land of the blind the one eyed man is king"

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