Quote Originally Posted by Oliver View Post
I wouldn't enjoy having sex with an old woman; why should a straight guy enjoy it with us? He may, of course, pretend to do so and "enjoy" the fact that he's making good money. In which case, it's up to him.
Some young Thais do certainly enjoy it; I've had surprising experiences in Babylon et al which even now I find hard to understand. But you can be certain that the guys who go there aren't straight.
I'm not making a moral judgement, merely questioning whether or not the enjoyment of the other party has any influence on the quality of our own experience. For me it does,
When I off someone from a go go bar, I am seeking my own enjoyment, not his enjoyment. I provide generous compensation for his services.

Years ago, I discussed having a threesome with an attractive guy. He suggested that we have a threesome with a women, and that I watch.

I reluctantly agreed to this arrangement. He had a good time, but the experience was not the particularly enjoyable for me or for the woman......