Quote Originally Posted by extronaut View Post
Well I think there's rules about going into too much detail here, but I'll try:

It's when you stick it between someone's legs, right up against the perineum (Google that word, if you need to). He/She then clenches thighs, ever so slightly, and it's just like having a hole.

I've been told that's called "Thai style", but maybe that's incorrect.
That makes sense. You are talking about intercrural sex. I've mostly heard of it being referred as frotting.
One guy that wanted to do it used the word "sumata". He said that's how Japanese call it.

Kudos to you for being able to conclude with that technique, even with the guy not appealing much to you.
I've never been able to unload doing it, even when being a lot into the guy. I guess each person has it's own "boiling" point.