Yeah, but he apologized about going out for some drinks with a couple friends, and staying out too late. If that's all that happened, then I'm the asshole. If more happened, I'll figure it out eventually. It might take me a few months, but he's same as me, and is a horrible lia, so he can't keep a secret for long.
I'm sorry, but no, he's not allowed to have sex with other people. Well, he can I guess and nothing I can do, but I can leave him.
He proposed, I accepted. A couple months later I proposed, and he accepted. As far as I'm concerned, we're husbands now, which means neither of us is allowed to have sex with other people any more.
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