The father went back to Vietnam last week after nearly 3 weeks of sitting indoors with a hat, coat and gloves on - we took him to London to catch his flight and spent 3 extortionately priced days there. Must be high in the rankings for most expensive city in the world.
Anyhoo, BF and myself just getting on with life - he is starting some study tomorrow to keep him occupied and with a view to future prospects.
Seeing an immigration lawyer on Tues to ascertain what options if any exist to keep him here