My Mam died in January. I looked after her for 7 yeas before she went into a nursing home] I really miss her right now. So gimmme a hug
My Mam died in January. I looked after her for 7 yeas before she went into a nursing home] I really miss her right now. So gimmme a hug
Hitchhiking's more of a challenge on the road less travelled.
Can't find the right emoji. Consider yourself hugged. Yes, parents are supposed to be always around for us, takes months to re-evaluate our roles after they depart. Your case even more so because of the intensity of care giving over a long period. Maybe in January, stop by a Wat in Thailand, burn some incense, say a prayer. I think she'd be glad to know you're thinking of her in that way.
dont be silly...she was catholic...best he pop into the nearest catholic church and light some candles...there is an excellent one not top far from Babylon in BKK
Of course she was Catholic, but I think she'd enjoy a few prayers wafting her way during Joe's Asian adventure.
joe552 (November 18th, 2017)
thanks bob, that's exactly what I'll do.I don't personally have a religious belief, and I don't think she's out there somewhere, but lighting a bit of incense will simply recognise that I miss her.
My mother went to Mass everyday, but was quite liberal. Our parish priest Father Martin came out during Mass as the same-sex marriage referendum was going on. He got a standing ovation in church. I've never seen anything like it.
Hitchhiking's more of a challenge on the road less travelled.
I don't know either, Joe. My sister went to a medium recently and according to that lady, my mother said my move "far away" (= Asia) was a good idea. Who knows. Somehow I always find it comforting to think there is something coming next rather than death ending it all.
Sorry but another stupid question - would it be okay for me as a lone farang to go into that Wat on Pattaya Tai ((opposite the school) on my own and light some incense in memory of my mother?
Hitchhiking's more of a challenge on the road less travelled.
Sure, Joe. Thais generally appreciate seeing farangs (appearing to) practice Buddhism.
joe552 (November 18th, 2017)
joe...stop being a total twat...if u r gonna honour your mothers memory then do it properly...in the faith she loved and practiced...
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