Matt, you may or may not be a Canadian who lives in KK with a Laos boyfriend called Leo. In the same way, that I may not be a guy called Joe who lives in Dublin. So it could all be fiction.

On the assumption that it's not fiction, why would you continue to post about your life on a board where some (many?) members doubt what you say?

I look forward to reading your answer in the morning, right now I'm off to bed (sadly alone).