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    Quote Originally Posted by Moses View Post
    If somebody forgot: here are forum's rules since 2013 (at least)..no one letter been changed since that time...
    Nobody's arguing about "The Rules" - the disquiet is over the way they are currently being applied and the attitude of some of the people applying them

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    Re: New Members

    Thank you for quick answers, although it doesn't explain why after several days and several requests, we still could only surmise that frequent had been suspended, see Member Banned thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brad the Impala View Post
    Thank you for quick answers, although it doesn't explain why after several days and several requests, we still could only surmise that frequent had been suspended, see Member Banned thread.
    No, look at the thread: frequent's nickname appears at 5th post... after it there was nothing else to add
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    There may be a temptation to attack a banned member, knowing that he can not defend himself.

    Not mentioning who has been banned can, to some extent, curtail such behaviour.

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    Equally, there may be a temptation to support him - that's really what's attempting to be curtailed.

    Basically Moses and Head Judge Len have no intention of having their judgement questioned - that's what's behind it all.

    If you can't see that a447 you may borrow my binoculars


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    Quote Originally Posted by scottish-guy View Post
    Basically Moses [..] have no intention of having their judgement questioned - that's what's behind it all.
    Almost. Moderator's decision is final unless he wants to change his decision. And I don't want public multi-page drama every time after moderator's action. Wanna to discus - welcome to PM, supporting public cheerleader-drama is forbidden.
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    Quote Originally Posted by scottish-guy View Post
    Equally, there may be a temptation to support him - that's really what's attempting to be curtailed.
    If the member has been legitimately banned, i.e. he has violated a clearly stated rule, then it's hard to support that member unless you withdraw your support for the rule he breached.

    So there's a much greater chance that someone will go on the attack while the member has his hands tied. They could justify such an attack by simply pointing to the rule.

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    SG, do you agree with me when I say that if you support the violator, you cease supporting the rule?

    That seems to me to be the crux of the matter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by a447 View Post
    SG, do you agree with me when I say that if you support the violator, you cease supporting the rule?

    That seems to me to be the crux of the matter.

    The crux of the matter is that, as in life, you ought to stand up for what you believe in.

    Rules are subject to interpretation and application - either or both can be wrong, and to say that no dissension will be tolerated is to proclaim your own infallibility.

    Do you feel infallible?

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