He couldn't afford to pay at the restaurants he chooses. That's why he chooses them.
No, he will never get anywhere near a level playing field with me - or probably any other farang he goes with. He's not even close to getting onto the field. We are both aware of that. So no matter how much money I slip to him, he'll never reach my level.I understand you want your companion to feel on somewhat of a level playing field with you, but slipping money under the table is not a way to do that.
The boys like the idea. That's all that's important to me.
Arsenal wrote:
Yes, we've done that too, although there is no budget as such. They know exactly what I like, and I'm very, very fussy.Give him the money in advance and tell him to order for you both while staying within the budget.