I dont discriminate between commercial and non-commercial dates....if what appears is not as advertised I very firmly tell it to leave....only exception is if its" do-able" and its commercial then I negotiate a discount taking great pleasure in pointing out the defects....can be real fun dates.
I always insist on full body pic...front and rear....no beer bellies or saggy bitts...that is a MUST...NO exceptions....ever.
Joe...I really dont care what he thinks of me as my pics are fully up to date...so unless he's as blind as matty there are no surprises.
When it comes to buying online dont assume anything...ask and check...be specific..about time frame and activities /services expected....on more than one occasion I have stopped a session because all of a sudden he decides that a previously agreed upon activity is no longer possible..