In March, I visited the Blue Hatha Spa, a male massage place on the edge of Pub Street area on Steung Thmei, a side street next to Tous les Jours cafe and the Platinum Cineplex. I very much enjoyed the services that were offered. Also there is a new gay club started by the Dreamboys Bangkok group. It is a little further from the central area but findable on google maps. It is called Heaven and Dreamboys bar and club. Let us know what you find!!