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    Bar boy deaths

    I spotted the death of yet another bar boy friend on Facebook this morning... (RIP A-O)

    It seems to me at this stage that not a week goes past without there being an RIP picture posted on FB, of course I don't know all of the dead folks... but I know at least 5 that have died this year

    My presumption is that it was always this high... but that we never got to see it as there was no real social media penetration up until this point and news never flowed from Issan back to us guys in Pattaya and BKK

    Am I the only one that has noticed this recent increased death rate?

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    Re: Bar boy deaths

    ...how morbid...dont think this is a topic most of us want to discuss...

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    Re: Bar boy deaths

    It's a valid point - a sad one but valid none the less and Colmx I think you're spot on that the numbers may unfortunately be remaining the same but it's just we're all interconnected more now than ever with the boys there and see things on their facebook pages that we never would ( or perhaps should) have seen before.

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    Re: Bar boy deaths

    Does anyone know what types of deaths these are?

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    Re: Bar boy deaths

    Quote Originally Posted by latintopxxx View Post
    ...how morbid...dont think this is a topic most of us want to discuss...
    Why not discuss? Better than most of the nonsense being posted.

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    Re: Bar boy deaths

    Quote Originally Posted by DrewSpz View Post
    Does anyone know what types of deaths these are?
    No secret : untreated HIV and motosay accidents !

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    Re: Bar boy deaths

    Motorbike accidents will account for a considerable number. They drink heavily and then drive like it's a race so a high mortality rate is inevitable.

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    Re: Bar boy deaths

    without sounding cruel heartless and uncaring...I really do not want to make any effort to connect with a MB...I have NO desire to " connect" with him. Occasionally I will engage him for a 2nd time but very rarely within the same trip...all I want is fresh arse....I hop onto grindr...find a pretty thing to empty my balls...use him and move onto a new one...once ive shot my interest wanes super fast.
    So back to the topic...I really have no interest in following them on FB/twitter/whatever...I'm not family or a friend...I was just a customer. Nothing more...if it wasnt for the firm flesh and bubble butt and wrinkle free complexion we would have never connected. Shallow...but good.

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    Re: Bar boy deaths

    Quote Originally Posted by latintopxxx View Post
    without sounding cruel heartless and uncaring...I really do not want to make any effort to connect with a MB... Shallow...but good.
    But latin you have always sounded cruel heartless and uncaring.
    You have reminded up of this a million times.

    There are people here who don't share your attitudes. Amazing but true.
    So cut them a bit of slack.
    ..........and that's the way it is.

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    Re: Bar boy deaths

    Agreed. I feel sorry for those who are incapable of relating to the guys they meet.
    And since it is likely that a number of these deaths are HiV related, it is in the interests of those who use the services of these guys that they should be aware of the dangers.

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