Me again.

[Nirish guy]

well done for posting that, it's always hard to admit "SHIT, I've been another daft farang" - even when knowing all the ropes that are pulled to make it not appear so at the start, but at least others reading this just might stop and take a second think themselves before entering into the same situation so your hassles just might avoid someone else falling for the same nonsense. so well done for that and sorry for your troubles - but hey, all part of life rich tapestry eh and no one died so not the end of the world, dust yourself off and wait the the next guy ( and his story but I'm guessing you'll be SO ready for this one and able to see him coming a mile off now - whether he's a chancer or NOT even !