Among my rare on-line hookups I find "Versatile" not to be so very versatile.
"Top only"or "Bottom only" are more honest and reliable.
As for "Safe Sex -needs discussion" what do you think?
Among my rare on-line hookups I find "Versatile" not to be so very versatile.
"Top only"or "Bottom only" are more honest and reliable.
As for "Safe Sex -needs discussion" what do you think?
What do you think?
"In the land of the blind the one eyed man is king"
I already know what I think but I'd like to know what you think.
What do I think? I think if they say safer sex "needs discussion", then it's a good indicator that they're some disease ridden individual who hasn't been very safe in the past.
As for top / bottom / versatile, I could care less, and I don't do anal sex.
given some of the comments here and on the other forums on threads about for example oral sex and condom use peoples expectations obviously "needs discussion"
I always thought the scale was about "safer sex" anyway so options of "safe sex always", "safe sex never" and "safe sex needs discussion" are simplistic and worse than useless
bkkguy
Yes, they might be disease ridden but they could also be proven disease free individuals who with another of the same status could have safe unprotected sex.
"Versatile" on line reminds me of the "I can do everything" bar boys who loose all their skills by the time they get to your room.
That doesn't really add up though. If you're being careful and mindful not to get things like HIV, you're going to put "safer sex only" in your profile, right? You're not going to put "needs discussion" when it comes to meeting total strangers off the internet.
Generally, you'd only have bareback sex with someone when you know them enough to trust them with your own life, which is literally what you're doing anyway, right?
I don't know, and again, moot point for me as I don't do anal.
It's always called "safer sex", isn't it? Simply means there's no such thing as 100% safe sex, as condoms do break, etc.