Among my rare on-line hookups I find "Versatile" not to be so very versatile.
"Top only"or "Bottom only" are more honest and reliable.
As for "Safe Sex -needs discussion" what do you think?
Among my rare on-line hookups I find "Versatile" not to be so very versatile.
"Top only"or "Bottom only" are more honest and reliable.
As for "Safe Sex -needs discussion" what do you think?
What do you think?
"In the land of the blind the one eyed man is king"
I already know what I think but I'd like to know what you think.
What do I think? I think if they say safer sex "needs discussion", then it's a good indicator that they're some disease ridden individual who hasn't been very safe in the past.
As for top / bottom / versatile, I could care less, and I don't do anal sex.
given some of the comments here and on the other forums on threads about for example oral sex and condom use peoples expectations obviously "needs discussion"Originally Posted by FarangRuMak
I always thought the scale was about "safer sex" anyway so options of "safe sex always", "safe sex never" and "safe sex needs discussion" are simplistic and worse than useless
bkkguy
Yes, they might be disease ridden but they could also be proven disease free individuals who with another of the same status could have safe unprotected sex.What do I think? I think if they say safer sex "needs discussion", then it's a good indicator that they're some disease ridden individual who hasn't been very safe in the past.
As for top / bottom / versatile, I could care less, and I don't do anal sex.
"Versatile" on line reminds me of the "I can do everything" bar boys who loose all their skills by the time they get to your room.
That doesn't really add up though. If you're being careful and mindful not to get things like HIV, you're going to put "safer sex only" in your profile, right? You're not going to put "needs discussion" when it comes to meeting total strangers off the internet.
Generally, you'd only have bareback sex with someone when you know them enough to trust them with your own life, which is literally what you're doing anyway, right?
I don't know, and again, moot point for me as I don't do anal.
"Safer sex!? I've heard of "safe sex" but what is "safer sex"? Wearing a condom while masturbating?
It's always called "safer sex", isn't it? Simply means there's no such thing as 100% safe sex, as condoms do break, etc.
I assume that ALL my sexual partners ESPECIALLY money boys are positive. I don't worry about venereal diseases that can be picked up with oral as these can be cured easily. So I always fuck with a condom and I change it for a new one if Ive been at it for a while as I dont want it breaking.
And I get tested regularly as in every 3 months.
So loies like safe sex " needs discussion" doesnt really bother me as Im always careful. Now when it comes to versatile..that is important and I'll get totally annoyed if what was promised is not delivered...especially if its by a professional..as in a MB.
christianpfc (June 10th, 2017)
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