An obsession with Thai Money Boys

[Oliver]

There are occasions when some of the guys we meet are anxious....basic things like paying the rent and even getting a decent meal can be difficult . Then there are medical expenses and the demands of parents back home that can be very troubling to a well-brought-up young man.
My concern is that in such circumstance, rare though they may be, the guys are persuaded to engage in unsafe sex as well as demeaning acts. A bad decision following a tearful message from Mama can have devastating consequences. And remember that some eighteen year-olds from the country are not very worldly-wise.
Nevertheless, Latin's fantasies (for that's what they appear to be), are a warning to us all to continue to act appropriately in our dealings with these guys. And from what I know from my boyfriend and others the vast majority of us do so.
What I find more disturbing about such fantasies of dominance, sadism and violence is that they are essential fascist. If you seek out Pasolini's "Salo" on the web (banned when it was released and even more notorious when Pasolini was murdered by a male escort, probably under government orders) and can endure its horrors, you'll see what I mean.

[latintopxxx]

arsenal stop being silly...u must be a tree hugging cardigan wearing vegan. So I like to play with my MB a little...no harm done. I've even had MB come back for 2nd dates. U really mustnt confuse love and friendship with paid sex. I have friends...lots actually...have regular fuck buddies too, but that only satisfies part of the need. Sex to me is not only a physical thing...its psychological too...the mind is the most potent tool when it comes to sex.
I revel in the freedom afforded to me when i engage a MB and the only thing that matters is me...my pleasure only...my needs...and I can drop the polite facade that we put on to deal with society in general.
How many times at work have u wished u could really express what you think but have to bite your tongue and phrase your response in such a way that " feelings" and " face" is not damaged.
Some people are into pain, whips, dildos, dressing up. Some like to be humiliated, role playing...masters/slaves...whatever. My kink is simply an extension of that....in my opinion a MB really has no dignity left, he's available to just about anybody who is willing to pay.
Sure my expectations may be a little high in that when i rent one for 3 hours i expect him as a profesional to be able to take the pace and if he doesnt then take a cut like anyone would if a job is not completed. Maybe u feel uncomfortable with the fact that I enjoy their discomfort in negotiating a discount for their services, that i will paw their body and complain that arse sags so I want a discount or whatever...its a game to me...makes me feel good...its my pleasure that counts. He's just doing his job. Or do you really think that the smile behind the mc donalds counter is real???

[arsenal]

Latins posts remind me of the guy in Mysterious Skin. The one who forces the rentboy to take drugs, rapes him and then smacks him round the face with a spanner. (He's the customer don't you know) His posts are so far away from every single other member here that I simply don't know how he remains.

[scottish-guy]

That doesn't wash. The boys are not "totally financially dependent" on latintopxxx and I don't recall reading that he locks the door and won't let them depart until they have performed vile acts of depravity with him. Hell, I don't even think he's "sexually deviant"..

1. At that moment in time I'd suggest the boy IS financially dependent - he is prostituting himself to fund his accomodation/food/life.

2. I never said LatintopXXX locked the door - but if the boy does not acquiesce in the humiliation/degredation and perform to LatintopXXX's entire satisfaction there is a penalty and he has been very open about that

3. If you do not think that LatintopXXX's peccadilloes are deviant (the infliction of maximum degradation and humiliation, the "riding like a pony", the verbal abuse "your arse is loose like an old woman", the throwing of the money on the floor) then you have a very strange idea of what average people get up to (clue: it ain't THAT)

The other thing I would say is that I'm increasingly sceptical of what LatintopXXX is telling us of his encounters. We all know the boys talk - there is no way his deviancy would not be talked about amongst themselves and his "business" avoided

[arsenal]

Latin is clearly a sexual deviant and he uses this board to further his fantasies. It's not the right place for them. There are websites dedicated to that kind of thing and that's where he and his drivel belong. Or as frequent calls it "lively."

[latintopxxx]

scotty and arseenal
Sometimes I really do feel like throwing my arms in the air and simply giving up. I simply want what was agreed. Example: not long ago...in fact less than a month ago i took in a boarder...english language student, from SE asia, money is tight, he's studying and working 2 part time jobs. lets call him BOY.
So i do BOY a major favour. Can stay in my spare fully furnished bedroom, full use of the apartment, all utilities free, can even help himself to the beer fridge.
In exchange he's mine for one hour a day. Thats right, he's mine to do as I please for one hour a day. Thats what we verbally agreed.
I even have a cleaner...so there are no house duties. Can even get his shirts ironed free if he hangs them out in the laundry room.
immediately we ran into issues, BOY doesnt like sucking my arse...something I love...so I told him to pack his shit and leave...his lips were on my rear lips so fast even I was surprised....he also doesnt like drinking my cum...now he loves it.
A week later a buddy of mine was over at my place for a beer, took a liking to BOY...so I told BOY I needed to collect my rent...problem..in his silly little mind we were like exclusive...again message was pack your shit and leave or service my buddy....he assumed the position.
He's free to leave...even has a key to the place...not like I'm home all day.
But like a month later he's still here...
Sure I love pushing the boundaries...see what I can get away with...like I msg him during classes and he has to meet me in the college toilets to get fucked...because I want my hour NOW. Didnt specify when the hour would be...his schedule is of no importance to me.

Arsenal..u call me a deviant...I think Im all good. Get my inspiration from sites like sketchy sex and machofucker and timtales.

[latintopxxx]

BTW I dont fuck everyday...some days Im just not in the mood or Im tired or whatever...on those days I get BOY to dance gogo style for me and jerk off. I tried to get a credit system going where I could accumulate unused hours but he argued that this is not what we agreed. Clever bastard.
And in case u r wondering this is not the 1st "boarder" I have had.

[cdnmatt]

My big question is, latin, I'm assuming you made him eat the leftovers off your ass cheeks, correct? Youdidn't actually give him the luxury of a plate, did you?

[latintopxxx]

...now u r simply being silly...

[scottish-guy]

I'm amazed that Latintop cant see that he's being abusive.

I fully understand that BOY agreed an hour of sexual contact a day in return for accomodation etc.

Perhaps if you'd mentioned that would include sucking your arsehole (how utterly fucking revolting by the way), gobbling down your semen, and making him do those things in front of an audience - he might not have agreed? Ya think?

He has told you he doesn't like those things but YOU have decided that these activities are required and mandatory in order to keep his room - or you'll throw him out on the spot (no talk of time to find alternative accom).

And Frequentflyer defends/supports this?